Would you be with somebody that felt you were the best they could do?

[Anonymous]

[Chazmatazz269]

Of course! That’s literally the whole point! If you’re with someone who thinks they can do better, they will almost certainly try to replace you. If you’re with someone who doesn’t think you’re god’s gift, you’re settling. And that’s a sure fire recipe for failure and heartbreak.

[Asker]

That's the whole point? The fact that they're settling for you means that if they had the opportunity to replace you they probably would.

[Chazmatazz269]

You didn’t say anything about “settling” in the question. You said “the best they can do”. That’s not settling. That’s a gift from god. No one better that i could deserve. If you were talking about settling, then you should have written SETTLING into the question. Ell oh ell!

[Asker]

Sorry man I assumed common sense.
If a person is the best you can do. You either. Accept it and are fine with it. Or you don't accept it. And rightly stay single. But some people don't accept it. And choose them till something better comes along. I figured most would get that implication.

[Sour-rose]

Yes and... maybe.

Yes- great, so now I'm gonna be super special and I won't be alone and I can love this girl forever and ever and ev-
maybe- I feel slightly concerned to know whoever it was before was shite

[Anonymous]

Depends on how they are, if they have esteem issues and think they can’t get anyone else and settle because it’s the best they can do no. If a genuine connection and feel nothing else or better, yes absolutely

[Asker]

Self esteem issues? 🤣
Nah, like they think they settled for YOU. It's got nothing to do with their self esteem.

[Opinion Owner]

I see, then very chuffed indeed. No greater privilege than someone wanting you for you.

[Asker]

Are usually really not understanding the question?🤣

[Asker]

You're not attractive to them! They're settling for you.

[Opinion Owner]

No I have under 3 hours sleep. Just on here trying to stay awake until I start work in 1 hour. Apologies, maybe ask someone who is fully functioning for the day. 😂

[Opinion Owner]

omg I see where you are coming from now, that’s awful, it’s like you are using someone, probably waiting until what you are after comes along and jump ship

[Asker]

It's all good.🙂 I should be sleeping too.

[Asker]

@chazmatazz269 didn't get what I was driving at either. I think I need to update the question. To be more descriptive. But I kind of made it vague on purpose. Because some people are vague with their intentions. I wanted to see how each person would approach this. Suffice it to say not how I thought they would.