I really want to fall in love and get married but find dating extremely stressful. How can I navigate this?

[Anonymous]

Also a lot of men just kinda think with their other head with me.

[DermalPunch]

Dating is dumb. Just state form the jump what you want. The man for you will meet you where you are. Don't capitulate because you want to make something work that clearly isn't it.

[Anonymous]

Yes, men "think with their dicks", which is to say that sex is more important to us than it is to you. If you have a problem with that and won't meet guys' needs, why would you expect them to want to meet yours?

[Anonymous]

You can start with having a positive attitude. Or maybe you should reconsider this endeavor altogether.

[Middleman]

Sadly there is no real answer to this. Unless there is someone in your life who is already familiar with you say from your school/college days (or that you know of say via close friends/family) and want to be with you, dating perhaps is your only option to get to married/know another person. Unfortunately as with all things in life, these things take time (especially getting to know someone intimately). With any healthy relationship, developing it ideally requires work and effort from both parties, especially if future family is involved. If marriage is what you want you just need to find someone who shares similar values/outlooks to you.

[OddBeMe]

So you want the prize without doing the work? Humans…

[Anonymous]

This going to be you in the future.

https://youtube.com/shorts/Cjdp9Feven0?feature=share

[Asker]

You guys need to stop with the whole nasty thing about telling women they’ll hit the wall and be less attractive. Honestly it’s made me suicidal hearing all the shit about it. Stop. It’s toxic.

[Opinion Owner]

I am sorry you've become depressed. If you makes you feel better I was suicidal and attempted suicide a few years back with full intention on dying in that moment. I decide I didn't care about findnlove anymore and made something of myself. I have a child via surrogate on the way and i want to do my best for with the wealth I obtained. I want true love from my family not anyone else.

There's modamily a co-parenting site where you can find someone to have kids with if you dont want to be lonely. If can't find romantic love, bring love to your life yourself. That's what I did.

[Asker]

Why would you post such a nasty thing in my comments then? Like if you really feel that way you should have said it first instead of your message. I truly mean it when I say that rhetoric is harmful. I remember seeing all the videos of those things over the years and feeling like I needed to hurt myself if I ended up alone because no one would want me.
Be careful with things you post. I’m a good person and I deserve love.

[Opinion Owner]

Not a single person in my life ever thought twice about saying hurtful things when I wanted to die. My sister even put her tumb up and said "cool" to me. Women were the most cruel and fucked up to me. They just laughed at me. Their boyfriends made fun of me. Last year I was given hurtful words from my friend of the last 8 years "what's it like to die alone" and that I've made it. I am going to more successful than ever, they hate me for it. Follow your passion. We are dead longer than we are alive, so let your Prosper. Let them successful. make money for your kids and generations to come. In 100 years no one will care for the ones who hurt me, but my children will be greatly I lived and obtained success. Look at Donald Trump. Nothing people hate more than a man who makes something of himself and his children.

[Anonymous]

Do you love yourself?

[Asker]

Yes. But I sometimes feel like I’ll never find someone who really loves me back.

[Opinion Owner]

The only way to find a decent partner is to seek assistance from God and through scripture, and everything else that comes along with it such as tithing, seeding, and prayer. The number of narcissistic, satanic, superficial ego led self obsessed people is extremely high that only through God is it possible to find another. But beware that this will require complete faith.

Your discernment will also come into play. In life there is the physical, mental, spiritual and supernatural / unseen. Most only operate within the physical realm and the seen. They completely forget that God wants them prosperous in every way. He does not want you stressed or without a family of your own. This is the only way. Anything short of that will not work, or will only work for a short period of time. But if you do not ask, you will not get because of the rules of free will.