I’m 29 and have wanted to be married years ago but find meeting guys too difficult. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I strongly desire being a wife and mother. I have never been the type to go out and party or club, I dress classy and have a lot going for me. Worked as a engineer and strategist in finance. Im not loud or rude. Im SUPER quiet that I might be unapproachable at times. Im a size 2-4 dress, long strawberry blond hair and extremely pale. My type is a guy around my height. Im 5’8” so anywhere from 5’8” up to 6 foot. I like nerdy guys who are extremely intelligent. Don’t like anyone too flashy with their money.
I live in a big city and don’t use dating apps. I meet a lot of nice guys in my apartment building and gym, sometimes get approached on the street, but I haven’t had any success. I don’t think there’s anything really wrong with me but it’s hard to put myself out there completely. Things rarely move forward tbh.
Im worried I’ll never find my match 😢 I genuinely would love to have someone and be a good partner.

[BetaBucks]

Find one of the non-hookup dating apps, set the age range for guys to late 30s, early 40s, find a husband within a month. 100% would bet my life on this. Unless you're severely deformed or lying about your weight.

[Asker]

A lot of the apps are bad especially bumble. Maybe hinge…a lot of people have success there apparently.
So 29 to like 43?

[BetaBucks]

I wouldn't know which apps since I've been with my wife for 15 years, but you can probably look at reviews and stats to see which ones result in marriage most often. I'd say 37-43 is prime marriage opportunity for your age. Mid 30s would be second best. High value late 20s and early 30s dudes are most often going to be chasing sex or trying to marry someone a bit younger.

[Asker]

It’s interesting cuz I find myself most attracted to guys who are 36+ anyway. So I think that works. Or maybe I just missed the opportunity to meet someone, it’s stressful.

[BetaBucks]

Well that works perfectly then. I hope it all works out for you!

[Emmytexrex]

Anyone you find attractive and is your type approach them don't always wait for someone to approach you first and see where it goes from there especially nerdy guys like when women approach them first

[Anonymous]

church would be a good place to start

[Asker]

Excellent suggestion. I’m Christian. There’s a church near me.