How do I overcome my insecurity about not having found a career path if I want to date to marry?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Try different things!!!
My first job was working in the textbook department of a university bookstore. After that I worked in a call center helping people with their phone, tv, and internet bills. I hated that job, and then my next one was childcare. Did day and evening care part time for a foster/adoption agency before transitioning to a full time daycare center. After that I went back to call center work, but with a different company and I didn’t even have to talk to people! Then a friend helped me land a job in local government, and now I work as a dispatcher for my town’s police department. And I love it!

Where we start isn’t always where we end up, so try different things.

[HighValue]

Work on yourself first at your young age and realize that if women don't want you now without an established career, that means they value money and status more (which MOST women do) so treat them accordingly and discard them later in life to trade up whenever you feel like it.

[Asker]

Actually, a job which provides me with stability, good money and a certain status is on the table but I wouldn't like it very much. What I mean by not having found my career path is that I'm trying to build a career, not just get a job.

[LazerBean]

By getting things done. Get a good paying job now and then figure out what you want to do after you have the money to do it. So sad how much money and time you g people waste these days just because their can't make up their minds.