How can I work to accept that I’m never going to get married? It makes me depressed that I can’t find someone?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Why do you believe that you can't attract a partner?

[Asker]

I just don’t think I’ll find someone who thinks I’m amazing, and even when I do they just don’t know that commitment is what they want from me. So I don't know anymore.

[slatyb]

You have to meet a lot of people to find out.

[Asker]

I guess so. But I don’t have. A lot of time. As we get older opportunities diminish right?

[slatyb]

I met my wife at 40, so it's not over. I have a friend who just got married at 56.

[Anonymous]

Stop looking and just focus on yourself. Make yourself attractive and guys will naturally come. Do your makeup, dress classy/sexy. Have long hair. Get your nails done. Work out. You will find a guy.

[Asker]

I’m already insanely attractive - model level. I work out every day and look incredible, have a great job, cook/bake, am maternal. I think there just aren’t a lot of men at my level.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh. Ok since it’s like u said then you probably attract men a lot or easily? I guess u don’t have a hard time finding men, just the RIGHT man?

[Asker]

Yep exactly!

[Miristheiss]

In today's western culture it will be very, very hard.

[BarryLiverstone]

You can meet other people who have also chosen to live life without a partner and see how they live

[Asker]

I’m not really into socializing or talking things out with others. I prefer to read or travel, ride horses, go to the gym etc.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you don’t want to participate in society and have friends then I’d suggest you read books others have written about being alone in life and understand their experiences