Am 33 years old and not married, struggling to find someone. Am getting old and everyone has settled down, this is really depressing me, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

[cryscrys1]

I think at this times being 2022
It’s OK for guys and girls to marry after 35+ .
Sure for women can be a problem because of giving birth but you can give birth totally normal up until you are 45 years old.




If you are a women reading this do not listen to man perverts here with one testicle telling you how you can’t.. cuz their love sensation died when Jessie left them.


Do not try so hard to find someone. Ask friends , family they can vouch for you. Love is build just like trust is. Many couples don’t realize it but sometimes they stay together because of memory they shared and they feel bad to leave but in a way that’s love..
anyways
What’s your problem do you think you are ugly fat what? Is something bothering you? If so then you have to really be proud of who you are as you are. Life is short your life is a priority. So don’t be stupid and maybe you can’t find someone because you don’t feel ok about yourself. Don’t give a shit about the world. When you die no one is gonna to care about you. Do you know who’s going to care about you? kids you leave behind. So if your dream is to get married create a family go out there find a chick and create a family.


Don’t be a mother f * you are young at 33 years old. Come on now!

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't like how our generation has come out. People think they are free to not followed the rules.

[RolandCuthbert]

I recommend the same thing all the time. Try going out in a group. Pick some interest group that is co-ed. It could be about movies, a book club, going to sci-fi conventions, etc.

Meet women in a group setting.

Try dating your female friends. I am not talking romantically. Just go out as friends. Get used to being around females and having conversations.

It is all practice. If you practice being social with females, you will find that you will get better at it. Too many guys think this isn't something you have to work on. We all have to work at it.

[Pot8o]

Read this article. I'm posting the archived version, because the site is no longer up:

https://web.archive.org/web/20190203043051/http://thematinggrounds.com/developing-the-right-mindset/

There are other good articles on the site, and a good podcast too:

https://podbay.fm/p/the-mating-grounds-podcast

[La_isla_bonita23]

You're still young homie