How does your dating life changes in you get older? Compared to your early 20's, mid, and 30's? As a late bloomer does did anything changed for me?

[poneglyphs]

I have no idea if anything changed for me or what I even like? How do you figure out something that you were supposed to learn in your younger years 😣😣😣

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Dating in your 20's suck by your 30's women start realizing the party's over and they start settling down and start realizing the Chad's generally are not the ones willing to settle down. Or they try to force one into it and end up divorced a couple years later. Then by your 40's the dynamic really starts changing. Women generally stop getting pursued completely and half to go on the offense. I kind of just enjoy rejecting the advances of all the 40 something women women now who 20 years ago wouldn't even consider me. Time my friend, it's the ultimate equalizer.

[exitseven]

When I was in high school i was still a fat kid with no friends. By the time I was in 11th grade I started getting in shape but mentally was still that fat kid. The summer before 12th grade I met a girl who really liked me. This gave me some confidence and I was able to actually talk to girls after thsat,

[poneglyphs]

Oh that's cool for me that still hasn't happened at all. I'm still that funny fat friend who can't get any girl's 😕😕😕

[exitseven]

so, do something about it. Make a plan and start it. every day telll yourself you are one day closer to your goal.

[poneglyphs]

I am taking driving courses but I am spending a lot of money. 🥺🥺🥺

[exitseven]

it will be money well spent. You will gain confidence and will want to start working out.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah you're right I just don't feel confident because I can't move around on my own 🥺🥺

[lightbulb27]

it got worse for a long time and slowly got better. I had to learn, heal, grow, wisen up.

I'm thoroughly convinced that if a person gets whacked in the head, pocket, and rear end enough... they will eventually learn something, maybe. My wife had to teach me a lot that I was emotionally stuck in. ya gotta watch out for these needy manipulative Bi#@3s... cuase they will screw you seven ways to Monday. In some ways, I was a bear with my head stuck in a yucky jar, and that started in early life.

dating life... you know... that is really about learning about yourself and life and others.. and most people have serious issues they are working through.

So enjoy the process and discovery. If you don't like what you've got, set some goals, make some changes, grow. you'll get somewhere else to new perspectives... and there's more beyond that.

Be careful... and look to values and morales and character, emotional compatibility.. or else.

in short... you wisen up... of things you didn't know... you didn't know!

have fun...

[poneglyphs]

Fuck wish I gave you the mho 🥺🥺🥺

[lightbulb27]

thanks for bro!! I was late to the party... been slacking on vacation;-)

[NathanDavis]

if you never had any then it cannot change for you...

you have yet to start one

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, true

[andreasderjuengere]

No one needs to ''learn'' dating.

I became aware of this silly term only during my mid 40's, and before already had a fair share in meeting - and spending time with - girls I like (d).

Then and now - I spent no thoughts on strategies, flags (of any colour) or procedures to follow.

Consistently.

[maximumpower]

Yes - it DOES change.
Found it really funny that my love life increased significantly once I had an education and a good paying job.
Strangely, women came out of the woodwork...
Driving an old police car and not discussing income helped weed out the gold diggers.

[andreasderjuengere]

Jake and Elwood will like to hear that :)

[RobT312]

Early 20’s some dating ruts and some one night stands, mid 20’s I found the women I wanted to date so I guess that made things easier, late 20’s lazy and hooked in a relationship …no more dating for me and happy about that!

[Avicenna]

Well, you have a more granular idea of what you are looking for in a partner. As you get older, it's easier to get dates.

It does take time to figure things out, but don't worry too much about that.

[zagor]

I was a mess in my 20's. I was one of the few people who was happy about their 30th birthday because it marked a demarcation from a bad time in my life.

[FictionalCharacter]

I’ve gained more confident in approaching guys in my 30s. Compared to being shy in my 20s.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really what changed?

[FictionalCharacter]

Nothing.
I needed to change and took risks and if I wanted something.

Also, guys are more sensitive and easier now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[jimmy2]

My wife passed away at our 54 age then after careing her for 8 years I was close to working my self to death. That took 7 years to come out of. Then I found all dating sites was nothing but scammers

[Anonymous]

My dating life became easier and easier.

[poneglyphs]

Oh really how so?

[bamesjond0069]

Gets easier and easier and easier.

[poneglyphs]

Really how so?

[bamesjond0069]

I mean, its two parts.

1. I've dated so much i just know what to do like washing my hands i dont have to think about it. Basically every date goes smooth, something weird comes up, I've handled it before. Its not surprising anymore.

2. Girls love older men. I've never had as many girls coming at me like i do now. Every year older its gotten better and better. Im definitely way more attractive to women at 35 than when i was 20 or 25 or even 30.