What are the most common things that turn you off to a man or a woman?

[Autember]

Any little thing! Maybe you like a guy who opens the door for you, or maybe you like someone who likes to cook, or maybe it's little pet peeves that just turn you off...

[lightbulb27]

there's lots, but the quickest way to disgust me is to smoke. I can't stand it... it seems the highest demonstration of ignorance and patheticness and dumbassedness (new word?) in the human animal. It's really really sad people are so damaged as little children (for I suspect it is the combo of a drug and fear that binds them) they are addicted to the security of a lighted stick that puts disgusting smoke into the air, while they suppress into their selfish minds... while I gag on the polluted air. Seriously... I saw people prioritize puffing the smoke over taking urgent life choices. it's a drug addiction...

not to mention it killed both my parents... or rather, they killed themselves... slowly. they loved every minute of that smoking though. it is one hell of an addiction...

is it legal for me to take avenge and terminate the assins... tobacco execs... that killed my parents? oh never mind, that's an illegal question. See... in business, you are allowed to hurt other people... if they choose it. Carpe Diem (let the buyer beware). That IS our society.

whomever reads this... you've been educated a little more than yesterday...

[BHooper]

Honestly the biggest turn on for me is just someone who cares. So if they have a bad attitude then it's definitely a true off. I've fallen for girls who I didn't find super attractive at first glance but one I got to know who they were and saw how they treated me they became the most attractive person to me.

[MrsTurkleton]

Disrespect. That’s pretty much the only thing for me

[HighValue]

If she is a democrat I instantly lose interest.

Other things would be her having kids from someone else, her having contact with an ex, drugs, and tattoos.

[hyperben]

a sign of life and a personality, sounds cliche but a woman with passion and drive for something she loves is an attractive prospect

[Yeetboi__]

Victim mindsets, and just living life through that specifically... its very degrading to someone's self image; When it starts to seep into daily life of the relationship, and other parts of life... it's just not a good thing to deal with.

[Andres77]

Arrogance, rudeness (treating waiters poorly), lack of empathy, selfishness.

[roy_ricky09]

I second that

[Anonymous]

If I ever see you kissing your goddamn dog you can forget it. That thing licks it’s own ass and sniffs butts at the dog park. And you think I want to kiss your nasty lips after that? Hell no.

[Shamalien]

Biggest turn off? Obesity, hands down. Masculine behaviour, like being belligerent and loud and rude. Blaming men for all her problems

[Guardian45]

Arrogance, rudeness, selfishness, KK qualities, psychopathic, narcissistic, liar

[Anonymous]

Biggest turn on: a warm, genuine smile, loving kids

Biggest turn off: being feminist / woke

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Biggest turn off in history of my life: Non Christian girl

[SpaceGalaxy]

when she constantly checks her cell phone once on a date with me

[Guy13]

loud nasty mouth. body counter.

[vald9inches]

Smell is definitely a big one

[EaterPeter]

Ai chihuahua

[EaterPeter]

Gottmans 4 horsemen

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Anonymous]

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