Men what are some things females do that turn you off?

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swagisforeverXD · Accepted Answer

wow. I mean some men have a huge list of things that turn them off… it’s sad.. I mean why does a women being on her period turn a man off… it’s a biological process. It just reminds me of the fact that men are more likely to leave their significant other if they have cancer whereas women are more likely to stay. I mean come on… grow up.. I’m a women and I can only name like 5 things that turn me off when it comes to a man and that all comes down to personality…

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

LMAO! No wonder so many men on here are alone, single and confused.

coachTanthony · Answer

Say they want communication every day but get upset when you can't give them communication ALL DAY. Sorry building an empire over here.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Constant talking, being super loud, using ghetto/hood slang

MCheetah · Answer

Also known as feminists.  Although there are a lot of woke mangina "males" out there, usually these man-hating females have this philosophy and still think they're entitled to perfect 10 out of 10 "alpha males", cause vagina. Are gay/queer/LGBT and openly admit to being gay/queer/LGBT but like to use, abuse, and use men as ATM's anyway.  (The gay females called 'bisexual,' like Apple1996. Nothing turns me off more than lesbians; especially those who men are simping to.) Are polyamorous/adulterers/cheaters and then act like ANY self-respecting man is going to want them after that.  (Aka, the "open relationship" selfish whores and narcissists.)  Are slutty, whores, or do half-assed porn like OnlyFans, and then act like ANY self-respecting man is going to want them after that.  Being a cheap whore is allowed for a woman, but no one has to want you after that, when you can't even show respect for  yourself . And as others said, when  women ask you to open up and communicate with them, but then get offended or call you "angry" or "an incel" or "weak" when you  do  open up and vent . F*CK OFF with that sh*t! And as others said,  women who talk about being "strong and independent" yet can't pay for their own f*cking food on dates like adults, and refuse to be with men on an equal or lower social level than them , ONLY expecting to find men who earn more than them and are more successful. In short, they are neither strong nor independent, yet like to think they are. I'd include the men who pretend to be women as well, but you said "females" and not mentally ill males who chop their genitals off. (Transwomen) And yes, I know this new terrible f*cking woke feminist admin on GAG is likely going to remove this f*cking comment because she dislikes it and dislikes not kissing women's asses, just like she does with ALL my f*king sh*t nowadays. But whatever.

river23 · Answer

No if I tell my man to be vulnerable I'd want him to if he can't or just doesn't wanna then fine I'll have to accept that because I can't force him, and I would never tell him to be vulnerable then do something or say something mean when he finally is because I also have trouble being vulnerable it's not second nor first nature to be to be vulnerable it's not even in my nature I have been closed off for so long being vulnerable is something new to me. If I said I'd call or text at a certain time or I'd call back if do that cuz what if it was something important even if not to me but to him I'd do it because it's nice and if it's important to him then it is to me. I always do what I'ma say and I always mean what I say, my actions and words are hardly different from each other I know actions speak louder than words so I like to make sure to do what I say I will and say what I'll do. And communication is something big for me only because it stimulates trust in my opinion ya know and trust is a big thing for me because I've been hurt so much. If I loved someone I would wanna change for them besides if I was told by my liver that I need to change I'd ask him what about me needs to change then I'd basically evaluate myself and if it truly needs changing I'll change for the better I'm not a person who picks sides I'll do it for them but also because I realized I really do need to change if I don't need to change their just being toxic then so be I'll keep being myself I don't have a very picky personality the one big thing I'm looking for in any relationship is security the sense of safety, I've never been able to feel safe before in any relationship not even with my own family so like cuddling or just being there and even just a little pat on the head here and there makes me feel safe and yes this might just be an excuse on my end to wear my guys hoodies but when I wear a guys hoodie whether it be my lover or my friend it gives me a sense of safety because I know guys love their hoodies so I know he'll come back for it I know I won't be abdoned and sure I know I sound like I need therapy but I've gotten therapy already and taking a guys hoodie to wear is one of my coping mechanisms I learned and created. Cuddling is the same it makes me feel loved wanted but I could always find other ways to feel that but that's one that works when I need a quick fix ya know. A pat on the head makes me feel important and useful in other ways rather than the ones I was taught growing up, for which growing up the only way I was taught that I was useful was if a guy found it pleasurable and fun to fuck me so teaching myself and learning this way pats on the head or back has helped me come out of the one I grew up with so now I actually believe I have value I believe my choice matters and that I have a choice in the matter. So while I do find what you guys have to say is true it's also wrong because not all woman are like this for one I'm not and I know plenty of others woman who aren't either not that I'm saying you guys can't say this cuz it's still true for the majority though. And while I myself as a woman would love if other woman who stop with this bullshit of theirs for all the other woman of the world I know they won't so that's why, like Dr Seuss said why stand in when you were born to stand out. So I'm gonna stand out as much as possible. I just found myself after the hellsih life I lived as a child I won't lose that over some woman not any man who thinks I'm less than what I truly am.

Sorry caught up in the moment and what I was thinking my bad.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

1.) Telling men to be vulnerable but get resentful of it if we do so.

2.) Say you will do something (like call back, text by a certain time) and don't do so.

3.) Actions and words never align.

4.) Communication is never direct, it is indirect, passive aggressive or ambiguous and they get upset when we don't just "know"

5.) Get jealous or cold if they see us talking to another woman... even if it is a friend or someone we both just met.

6.) Disrespectful, impolite and rude

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

1. Dishonesty, not being genuine, so she is just being friendly (Like we don't know what's going on)

2. Stalking, giving signals like an antenna

3.

.. okay sorry I need to interrupt but I wanna listen to some "Dr. Dre - Bloww". My phone battery is 9% left

You'll get what I mean when you read the first two

Anyways, wish you a great weekend😊😊

Finchie40 · Answer

Being selfish and sneaky , will be loving and sweet to your face but become a whole different person when they talk to their toxic girlfriends, like they are plotting to be bad and up to no good behind your back when they plan a Girl’s weekend , Those kind of girls’ don’t have a chance with me because it’s fake they just like the convenience of you , when someone actually loves and values you they pretty much eliminate putting themselves in situations that can add fire into a relationship , out of respect for the relationship , A girl that seeks validation is a girl that needs to be on the streets a girl that values me with be under my sheets

RavVid · Answer

Aside from nagging?

One of the things that I find very annoying is that girls think because they don't know anything about plumbing, electricity, cars etc therefore I couldn't possibly.

A lot of girls have asked me for help with their computer. What they want however is for me to sit down beside me and watch them make the same mistake as rapidly as possible. All the time refusing to listen to me and stopping me from actually helping them to resolve the problem.

It is only when they exhaust themselves by the rapid typing that they allow me to take over and resolve.

Not only is it very annoying, it is offensive and any desire I did have is now evaporated.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Drinking alcohol
Doing drugs/smoking
Wanting or having casual sex or having lots of partners or a high body count.
Being religious or otherwise dumb.
Having kids already.
Wanting to have kids.
Perfume and makeup.
Cheating.
Lying, playing mind games, not being upfront, indecisiveness.
Self contradicting traits/behavior/opinions/needs.
Gold digging.
Obesity, bad smells, or other lackings in self care.
No hobbies or talents/not sharing my hobbies/talents.
Blaming bad behavior on mood swings or pms.
Expecting a guy to do everything.
An obession with confidence.
Needing space (instead of comfort) from an SO when stressed.
Being illogical in serious situations (in silly situations its fine).

magiusX26 · Answer

a big one is the constant double standards
being indecisive
the mind games (things such as "testing your SO" with this or that are mind games)
the 3 (some say 4) sixes (6 foot, 6 figures, 6 pack, 6 inches) sorry but if you want all that, after eliminating things such as underaged, gay, other side of the planet, married/taken and will not cheat to be with you, and other such factors, that leaves you all with less than 1% of men to share. oh and trust me, most of y'all are sharing these few men because in a population of 1000 that is domething like 3 or 4 guys meeting this criteria for around 40 to 60 women (not all women do the 3 sixes and also eliminating simular things as above) and most if not all of these 40 to 60 are getting laid regularly with many pregnant. all the while, most believe the lie that she is his only one.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Given a grocery list with 6 things returning with 8 bags

Going into a clothing store taking an hour to get 12 articles of clothing asking me how they look while trying them on then “I don’t like any of them.”

Suddenly deciding to clean the house at 10pm

Asking me a question which I answer correctly then disagreeing with me

Just sitting down to relax and start my show or game and suddenly they start shrieking my name all way upstairs because there's a spider on ceiling

Pinay_ako · Answer

I heard we get annoying 🤣  dramatic sing songy baby voice when we get inconvenienced we never shut up  we don’t know what we want  too needy/dying for attention Expects you to pay every time spends way too much getting ready  moody uses sex against you

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

When a girl shows signs of promiscuity, attachment to an ex (even talking about them), disrespect to her parents, or is vocal about stupid feminist views that she borrowed from a college professor, and simply reiterates to make herself sounds smart/ passionate/ virtuous, etc. I'm completely turned off.

MementoMori_ · Answer

Loud mouths. Cackling laugh (think Kamala Harris). Trying to show that they can be "just like a man" (I don't want to date a man). Thinking that if they like being a woman and all the things nature designed women for that somehow makes them less strong, valuable or deserving of respect (in other words "feminists"). 🤮

EspressoTeen234 · Answer

I'm one of the shy kids of high school and the thing that turns me off is a jumpy girl that is one of the more popular kids. I prefer shy people with a better personality or less popular people because I find they have a more romantic view to relationships. Not just about looks but getting to know each other grabbing a coffee at the neighborhood coffee shop and helping each other with homework.

MysticDevice · Answer

Smoke and do drugs are a big one. I don't really care that people do it, I just find it gross.

Bad at driving. This is more just people in general and not specifically women. But my god people, its not hard to drive a car lol.

Constant indecision. With like everything. Even small things. We all hesitate sometimes but when every little thing is an internal debate it gets tiring.

JFelix · Answer

Some people are gonna give stupid answers to this but the true answers are pretty self explanatory and stuff that would annoy you if it came from anyone, wether that's constantly telling me what to do, not being upfront and not communicating, and constantly nagging

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Support ANTIFA and BLM (not Bureau of Land Management, I love hiking) Eat vegan diets Talk about Jesus in every conversation

Havthrills · Answer

Whiney about everything, High pitched voice, Hitting on every guy that walks by, Bad drugs, punching/kicking the balls.

Everyday normal stuff: constantly complaining, comparing people all the time ("look at her, I can't believe she would wear that" stuff), ignoring me.

msc545 · Answer

Nagging, Greedy, Ugly tats and piercings, Has many male "friends", Screeching loud music, Cheats, and then tells insultingly stupid lies to cover it up, Can't / won't cook, PLAYS VICTIM, expects me to pay for everything, boring, labile dyscontrolled emotions, chronic anger. Much more but this is enough for me for now.

Luopio27 · Answer

Well shit does come out their ass.
Wait a minute. shit comes out of my ass too.
Does speaking the truth make me a hypocritical peace of shit, or am I just a wanaB asshole, hoping that chicks start to digg?

In the name of assholyness, I have no idea what Im talking about, but I say this with confidence. The last line is the lyrics from kid rock song.
I know it stinks in here, because Im the shit.

burlen · Answer

When women make demands to, requirements for, and expectations of men but never tell what they have to offer the man.

McKellar · Answer

Lose interest in you faster then a blind of an eye. 1 day, they flirt with you and come across like they are interested in you and want to be more involved with you,... then the next day POOF!! Gone! They automatically lose interest and it just gets very irritating and tiresome.

Another turn off,... they don't talk to you at all.

dragoblack · Answer

Being petty and passive aggressive, Not being honest with us when we do something wrong, throwing things when mad, choosing petty small things to be mad about, causing drama where there is none, making fun of people because they think it's funny, entitled mentality, the mind games, can't be honest about their intentions & feelings but expect us to automatically understand, and taking their anger out on others.

TroyDT · Answer

Being rude to people that they think are of a lower station - I will walk out on a first date over this. Using profanity as part of their normal conversational speech. Lacking proper hygiene.

Rosexøxø · Answer

Funny comments- hope we get the other side to this question :)

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I know girls who lie and act fake get dumped easily as well as girls who are too demanding of gifts or wasteful with money.

Alex8736 · Answer

Only focusing on the negatives but when you call them out on one of their mistakes they always say "that was different". I do my best by looking at the glass 1/2 full

TheVigilantOne · Answer

Picking her nose, farting and burping in front of me or spitting everywhere. Yes I experienced this with my last girlfriend she was disgusting.

Pot8o · Answer

Not scrub the toilet bowl after taking a dump.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Preach to men about feminism/say everything wrong in society is men's fault. Try to act like a man, have a nasty attitude, and act like an entitled and demanding brat.

Anonymous · Answer

Being too serious. Like not laughing at jokes and easily feel offended for silly reasons. Basically if she can't handle to make fun of each other then this is completely switch off.

tzdc21 · Answer

Bad attitudes Using sex against me Gold digger Disrespectful Lazy Drugs and Alcoholic Expecting us to read their minds

Moose304 · Answer

Tats, smokes, and lack of personal hygiene. I'm also not a big fan of the F word every other word either.

tfan1 · Answer

High pitched screaming OMG NO WAY!! AHHHHHH!!! Sounds like high school cheer leaders from California

Cedman · Answer

Indirect communication, women never say what they actually mean.

Anonymous · Answer

There is still a strong sense of false victimhood among many women today, and that tends to come with certain political views. That is the biggest turnoff of all for me.

Jamesshinobi · Answer

the only thing that turns me off is bad hygene and eating habits. I call it Female Ate Too much Syndrome or F. A. T

Hardworkingguy · Answer

When they want to scold you as if you were 7 years old or if they are never in a good mood

Juxtapose · Answer

Being indirect whatsoever usually. Be upfront with me, don't make me guess and don't play mind games with me.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Act in ways that undermine their own femininity.

DailyConfusion · Answer

Just suddenly being rude for no reason and spamming you with texts and calls

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Being loud, obnoxious, drunk, tatted up, lots of piercings.

Staximus · Answer

Get razzle dazzled by money or bullshit wanna-be celebrity\rockstar\Hollywood cool guy "status".

clampfan101 · Answer

Nothing comes to mind that all females do. (At least nothing that isn’t also done just as often by men.)

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

Stating you want to go out on an errand for one thing and then tacking on 2-3 more task while out in public.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Some are being really not very intelligent, that for me is the biggest turn off, besides that like lack of hygiene or gossip with other women trying to get an identity

Anonymous · Answer

playing hard to get and deliberately using me for my money ( as in money being the main perk they see in me). Also nagging.

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

Curses too much, bad hygiene talk about ex'es too much talk too much

JPresidente · Answer

Talk only about themselves, belittling of others, foul language, tattoos and piercings.

Pohjolan · Answer

Smoking, being fat, being mean, being stupid.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Get extremely moody during their period and scream at you

Shy_Steve · Answer

Embarass me in front of other People and Flirting with Assholes and Rude Guys.

notwoke · Answer

bad with money, withhold sex, get fat, you can live with the rest

Quidthonian · Answer

Smoking. When she lights up, she is pernamently in the friend zone.

Esperdragon · Answer

Gossiping a lot, too much makeup, too much plastic surgery (almost everyone looks better in pre plastic surgery photos than post)

twotone54 · Answer

But really turns me off is when women keep their clothes on 🤓

Anonymous · Answer

When they get abusive, not just for the abuse itself but it's also because they do it knowing we are not going to strike back.

ThatMadGuy · Answer

Talk about their periods (no offense) and talking highly of themselves.

BLP11520 · Answer

Complain and criticize other people in front of me

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