So how do you know he’s serious or not while dating?
So, i’ve been dating this guy for almost a month, we live 2+hours away and were eachothers snap bffs since almost the beginning.
We have slept with eachother, we talk on the phone sometimes for 4+ hours and on one of the dates we got tattoos (completely separate ones). I’ve had a lot of fun with him and yes i’m falling for him. But it’s during the night he calls me, i have insomnia and i actually asked him why he calls me so late and he says it’s bc he know i have ”nothing better to do at that time”…i don’t have good experiences since before with men calling me that late to just talk bc they turned out to not be that serious about me.
I’m a overthinker so i still need to hear in what way men shows they’re serious and is not just looking for a 2 months ”good time”. There’s def signs he is serious about me, but sometimes my mind makes me think he’s not that serious. I’m for sure gonna ask him at some point but i’m curious if there's anything that i’ve missed that might show me if it is or isn’t.
Also, he doesn’t seem too keen on me visiting him, he says it’s bc my puppy isn’t fully pottytrained which i get, but him and his friends are gonna come for a local festival here this week and he wants me to join em, but he doesn’t want me to go with him and his friends to another event the week after but rather would like us to go by ourselfs the day after…i know we haven’t dated that long but i just find it all a bit odd, very much back and forth up and down about that kinda stuff. I’m always tryna read into stuff like this bc i’ve been hurt and manipulated too many times and i’m quite done with that.
I just wanna make sure that i don’t put down too much effort into something that isn’t for the long run.
