What does it mean when a guy asks you to be his girlfriend before meeting in person?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been talking to this guy for a while and we live in different states (I have never been in a relationship so I don't know much about it) but he recently asked me to be his girlfriend and we haven’t even met or FaceTimed he sounds like a really great guy but I don't know it’s kinda sketchy! He did tell me he wants to come up to my home town and we can go to the fair together! I still don’t know what to do!

[midnightmoon05]

It means he is desperate.
it can also mean he is only thinking of what he wants only.
did you tell him you like him? How long have you two been talking?
how often do you talk over the phone?

[Asker]

I never told him I liked him and 2 weeks tomorrow

[midnightmoon05]

Same answer. He is desperate.

[BarryLiverstone]

He knows you are inexperienced and is trying to use that to win your trust. It means he doesn’t respect you

[In_Trance]

Red flag

[Anonymous]

Big red flag! 🚩