Let’s say you met a guy online — he’s been respectful, nice, patient, makes you laugh, been chatting for months online and haven’t met yet. Obviously her and I are adults, she said she would meet up late September/early October. I would like to meet this month in August but it doesn’t seem like it. You may be thinking “if you’ve been talking for months and haven’t met that’s a bad sign”.
In fairness from February to now a lot has happened — I graduated university in June, my dad passed away in April, I got two new jobs in June and working 60 hrs a wk. She’s had her stuff to deal with. We both work full time. She doesn’t text as frequently anymore so im not sure if that’s a lost sign of interest. I haven’t pestered her or bothered her. She’s reiterated I didn’t do anything wrong and she’ll meet in late September or early October. Should I question this and not bother meeting her?
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If I say something I mean it. If someone asked me to meet up and I said yes it is because I want to. I am not going to waste my time or their time by doing it for the heck of it. Did she give any indication why it has to be September or October? Unless I missed it in the descriptive. Surely she has given a reason why she has to wait. What you have to decide is if she is worth the wait. That is something only you can decide.
It’s a religious month and she’s going on vacation overseas for 2-3 wks. That’s the reason it will be awhile. I can wait, I’m not impatient. But I hope she doesn’t flop.
Oh if she has a good reason like that I doubt she will flop.
I sent her an honest text message and said listen if you’re busy and not feeling it with me you don’t have to feel obligated to meet me. And some other stuff. I sent it last night. Haven’t heard back from her.