I think he wants to have sex sweetheart, he's looking for a hookup, or he has more options and as you said he's trying to breadcrumb you or keep you as a spare in case things don't work out, and if he isn't texting like he used to, someone else has his attention. I don't even like men texting me saying "hey beautiful" or "sweetheart" because they use that Pet name when first talking so they don't mix up the girls names, when was the last time he even called you by yours? I wouldn't stick around he may be talking to 5 girls and you are bottom tier, he may have say relationship material in you at first, but not anymore or just say you as a hookup, a lot of guys don't admit it, but they will talk with a girl who wants a relationship when they want to hookup because they think it's a prize to get the monogamous girl to go for a one night stand, so if you aren't trying to bang and that's what he was looking for, you are pushed to the back of the list or "silently and slowly" ghosted. If a guy wants you, and i mean WANTS YOU. You don't have to do this, he would keep calling you, you don't have to initiate all the time, you don't work 24/7, so HE doesn't work 24/7 if he likes you he would make time to see you. Just my insight, I've been here. Don't try to grasp for something that isn't there, you only feel worse. I do wish you Good luck in your search for love 💘
He doesn’t seem interested in you. I say move on. First, you had to invite yourself, then you got rejected when you asked for a different day. “I work” is him basically telling you he’s not interested in the nicest way possible. No one works 7 days a week 24 hours. He’s clearly making an excuse. So you should leave him alone. If he was interested he would’ve made time for you. You seem like the one that’s more into him from reading this text. You deserve someone who will equally show you interest and make time for you.
Some people are just not good texters and more interactive irl.
Let's put it this way, he's 'vitually socially awkward'. It's a possibility because i have a friend who speaks just like this in the text, but irl when we hang out they're very talkative.
you asked to join him then said you couldnt. then when you said next weekend he mentiined he has to work during that time. sounds more like he took it as your not fully interested in him off you asking then turning it down when he invited you off your ask.
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Based on the conversation on the pic, it really dont mean all that much. A bit short yes. But maybe it is just how some people text. Hard to tell because you can't hear the tone or facial expression. Maybe try again but this time set up a time and place in advance, ask him if he is available then. If not then ask him to pick the time instead. If he steps up to the task, then there is hope. If he continue to give excuse and try to dodge, then you know it is time to move on... walk away and keep walking!
He didn't expect you to tell him to come.. he wanted to by the looks of it but had other commitments probably something with his family.. but he wanted to so tried to reschedule to a time that worked for both of you.. say hey my next day off is ______ are you free to go then?
Lol, booty call.
People that text like this aren't interested. He is just trying to get laid tonight.
Also, why did you ask to join him, but then when he said ok, you said you can't tonight? Doesn't make sense.
Yeah, I’d be over it lol he’s not putting much effort into the conversation and constantly carrying the convo on your back is going to get annoying after a while. On top of that, you gave other suggestions as to why you could hang out and he made zero effort.
Texting is so shit before you get more involved with a person. Call instead of even video call. So much less ambiguous, so much quicker and more clear.
He texted you at 1:02am saying "wyd" you did not respond, he texted you again at 5:26pm, and you replied at 6:30pm... maybe he thought you weren't interested?
He's so dry. Why does he message you at 1am to as 'wyd' he doesn't want an actual relationship it seems. Looks like he wants friends with benefits.
It wasn’t a good idea to ask if you could join him if you knew you were busy and wouldn’t be able to make it.
Unless he is officially your boyfriend, don’t initiate anything. Makes you look masculine
Why'd you ask if you could join and then immediately bail when he invited you?
I wouldn't give up just yet... Maybe he just needs another nudge or suggestion?
He proposed an alternative time... of course he's interested?
One word answers are really NOT that good sign from him. Neither he counter offered. Not interested.
You also texted back late.
But he might be looking for some benefits
he was at the Bowling alley, you asked if you could "JOIN" he said yes, come... then you made it complicated, you didn't want to "join" you wanted to make a separate date... so that is NOT JOINING
He sounds confused, but ask him again and if you get the same answer, than the hell with him.
You are asking questions of strangers you should be asking him.
It means he’s putting zero effort in so id say yes and he's not worth it
Girl, he playing. Why would he ask to come if he can't? Sounds like he is testing you. NEXT!!!
you just tried inviting yourself. he's not interested otherwise he would of given you a time and day
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