Especially a guy that has only gone on 3 dates with you. Would a guy say that to all girls on the 3rd date as the thing to say to get sex, and so I should still wait a bit before introducing him to people as my boyfriend? Or like what does it usually mean when a guy asks a girl to be his girlfriend?
It really just depends. Asking by third date seems to be a little soon. But if the person I’m dating shares a lot of similar values and interests, and we’re hitting it off well, then I’m going to try to appreciate their value as quality person and perhaps I’d ask if they want to be exclusive. Late 20’s, if I’m asking her to be my girlfriend, I have marriage on my mind as a potential. Sex would be a byproduct of how things went, not my first intention. 3rd date boyfriend might be a little soon unless he could be the one.
The only way you can know is by asking him. If I asked someone to be my girlfriend, I would mean that I want to date her exclusively. You can ask him “So, are you saying you want to be exclusive?” If you both want that, then you can say you still want to take the physical side of the relationship slowly, or wait until marriage, or whatever you envision. If you can communicate with a man clearly and get clear, unambiguous responses, that’s a good thing.
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I don't know about other guys, maybe most guys do that, I have no way of knowing. I know SOME do! But, if I were to ask a girl to be my girlfriend (and, from what I recall, that's never happened. So far, every time I've gotten together with one, it's because SHE instigated it.), it just means I want her to be my girlfriend. If she feels sex is gonna be part of that as soon as she says, "yes", then, so be it but, if it takes another several months for us to get into that, that's fine by me. I asked her because I felt something special for her, not just to be able to fuck her. If she feels the same for me, sex will come, eventually. When she's ready. And, most likely, when I'm ready although, that's usually any time.
Usually, yeah, someone asking to be your boyfriend is wanting to be with you for a while.
Definitely some guys use it to get in girls' pants, but there's also a good amount of guys who are genuine about it. And a good amount who are mixed about it - they want both to get in your pants and to have a good relationship.
But instead of asking internet strangers, why don't you have that talk with this guy? Ask him what he sees with you in a relationship, and what you see in a relationship with him.
Opinions from other people can be valuable context, but they're hardly the driving narrative behind your relationship. You and your maybe boyfriend build that together.
I think normally it does mean that he envisions being together for at least a few months. The "unknown" is how long it will last because we don't really know what issues will arise or incompatibilities there will be. And most relationships are temporary anyway. But him asking after only 3 dates is a little early.
First, stop thinking sex is going to tie a man down. Learn to say no to every tom dick and Harry. That 3rd date rule is just a made up thing.
If you want to marry a guy just tell him you want that in the least desperate way. Second, if you want a man then value what he values, don't go about how you have a career and all, that's really a weak thing. Everyone has stomach to feed so if someone says she has a career congratulations but it's not going to change something. Working women are good but they need to understand that work is secondary to forming a family
My ex girlfriend asked me after a few weeks. I told her we weren’t anything because her birthday was coming up in a few days. She called me later that night crying and I told her what my plan was and that the surprise was ruined. Does it sound like I only wanted sex?
Interesting details, as I've been introduced as the boyfriend by a single-mom on the second date. I mean we talked much on the first date going for a walk by the lake and even had pizza at a restaurant, but despite being together for several months we never had sex despite me hinting on it.
As to your situation, I wonder why people would actually ask for it, whilst others would say you feel it once you're ready.
telling the difference between a man wanting sex and wanting love is one of the hardest things a woman will ever have to do and the truth is there is no certain way to tell.
but what it means is he would want a relationship. does he? i don't know. he could be lying. but as a man i will never know this issue
He's not sure, but doesn't want to say no to long term, but can't say yes. Likes you, wants to keep you, not thinking future. Some might. Doesn't want anyone else to grab you. 😊
It means I'm going to stop sleeping with other people. I'm not really "envisioning" anything about several months. You don't suck as a person... let's see where this goes.
For me it means that I like you and want to take our relationship to the next level to determine if we are compatible for marriage.
It means he wants you as his girlfriend. You could ask if he's looking for a long-term or short-term relationship.
I never experienced that so I assume he probably likes you and wants to be together..
I think he is implying that he would like to see you exclusively and long term.
I don't want loves, only those horny ones, after a while I may abandon her, there are millions of women and the options vary.
It means he is really interested in you and sees a dating future and relationship
Not necessarily. It means "be my girlfriend - now and in the immediate future".
A guy should not be the one to ask for a relationship, the woman should do that.
I only asked girls out that I thought I wanted to grow old with.
Girl men will promise marriage to get nookie. How do you think I lost my virginity.
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