After a month of spending time together why hasn’t he asked me to be his girlfriend?

[Geminigirl97xo]

He’s an amazing guy and I really like him. Our first date was 2nd October.

He said I’m his girlfriend but not officially yet and said he doesn’t wanna tell me when he will ask me

however I’ve met his parents, been intimate, met some of his friends, we hold hands in public, he texts me everyday

I just wanna know how guys ask girls to be their girlfriends? Or does it just naturally happen without asking that question

he even posted me on his Snapchat and his friends were like “is this your girl?” And he was like “yeah it is”

if things are going so well between us why won’t we ask me to be official? Technically we’ve been on 6 dates and known eachother since end of September

my cousins boyfriend asked her to be official after date 2!! 😞 what is wrong with me?

I understand he’s never had a girlfriend but I’ve given him a lot of hints that I want him

[urpapi69]

He's not into social media but you're his girlfriend. Labels don't matter. Actions do. And he has done a lot to show that he thinks of you as his girl. Just don't push him to say it.

[Ironic_Method]

Why don't you ask him?

[Geminigirl97xo]

Apparently guys are hunters and girls aren’t meant to ask those type of questions

[Ironic_Method]

Lolwut

Just ask him out.

[es20490446e]

As women need more time, it is better if they are the ones initiating relationship stuff.

Although my thinking is that, if you are already doing relationship stuff together, you are already in a relationship. No matter what the parts say, or agree with.

[alance99]

Please dont listen to negative people here they aren't giving you any useful advice, you have to be little firm on making things official coz you are getting more attachted to him with every date and it hurt you more at later stage if things dont go as planned

[Geminigirl97xo]

How do people even become official nowadays?

[alance99]

Some people keep it private and some people post status or pics on social media , what matter most is both people in relationship should be happy with each other

[TheSpaceGnome]

Lol a month.

This is why divorce rates are high, people rushing into things too fast with people they barely know.

[Luckycharms12]

Enjoy the moment sure he ask you out at some stage very early on

[Geminigirl97xo]

So why is it that I’m practically obsessed with him yet he needs more time before making things official?

[Luckycharms12]

Obsessed that's a little off putting. You are a good looking Lady I'm sure he will. Give him time early in to it yet enjoy the moment where you are now.

[Geminigirl97xo]

You think 2 months is early?

[Luckycharms12]

Ya I do it early on in a relationship building trust getting comfortable and confident together sexually tension is wild just enjoy moment.

[PatriceONeal]

Just because you are obsessed doesn't mean you are entitled to his love or commitment. You've already shown him you don't need either to give up the pussy, why would he change? You've already ruined your shot at that Chad..

[Geminigirl97xo]

@PatriceONeal well today he claimed me as his girlfriend and said “I love you” so suck on that you hater 👍🏽

[PatriceONeal]

Why would he buy the cow when he gets the milk for free?

[Geminigirl97xo]

well I don’t give free milk forever

[PatriceONeal]

So then when you stop he leaves. Nice.

[Cheerfull009]

If this is the case, then he can buy milk from any person, not from you only,

[PatriceONeal]

@Cheerfull009 yeah, and if milk likes you milk will deliver itself at 3am in a blizzard on a work night, with a headache.

[Cheerfull009]

I have an Australian cow my own, so no need to ask others for milk

[MysteriousDarkness]

Why don't you just ask him to be your boyfriend instead

[Anonymous]

Well since he's never had a girlfriend before it would be difficult for him to do stuff like this, I assume he was the one that approached you

[Geminigirl97xo]

No I asked for his Snapchat first as he was too shy

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting, something girls normally never do and never will do

[PatriceONeal]

No. Most girls do this, only when they are extremely smitten by the guy and he isn't approaching, they will take the initiative. He's out of her league and everyone knows it.

[Geminigirl97xo]

@PatriceONeal were both good looking people so quiet pls :)

[Opinion Owner]

Were you the one that approached him?

[Geminigirl97xo]

No. I just asked for his Snapchat before parting ways

[Cheerfull009]

To become official girlfriend /boyfriend in UK, where to register and get confirmation certificate?

[DailyAsk]

Maybe, It has to do with it being Interracial.

[Geminigirl97xo]

Why should skin colour matter?

[DailyAsk]

It doesn’t but sometimes People like what feels like them.
By that I mean for example, white color is weak if a man haves a baby with a black woman his baby would be like him!
This is a small example.
Its not about racism it’s about biological proof that people look for what feels and looks like them specially for men.

[DailyAsk]

Wouldn’t *

[Geminigirl97xo]

Thanks for making me feel even more sh! t 👍🏽

[DailyAsk]

Don’t, I didn’t mean that.
I was just honesty giving you a scenario.
This doesn’t mean it will be your scenario.

[Geminigirl97xo]

I’ll just leave him alone and remove myself from his life. Then he can find himself a beautiful white gurl

[DailyAsk]

Thats non sense, first of all, you only have been to only 6 dates.

[Geminigirl97xo]

So why is it that I know I want to be with long term but he needs more time? Don’t you think 6 dates is enough?

[DailyAsk]

I’m from a different culture, I don’t know much about dating but I think 6 sounds not that much or maybe you have too much for a little time.
I mean sex wise.

[rachel776]

sometimes it takes longer 🤷‍♀️

[PatriceONeal]

No?🤭

[AsaKyo]

You could always ask him out

[Anonymous]

Nice to know even face like you getting attention from guys. 😊

[Geminigirl97xo]

I’m beautiful, so not sure what you mean

[musicbrain5]

That’s mean.

[Anonymous]

Because you didn't give him the coochie

[Geminigirl97xo]

We’ve had sex about 15 times lol

[Opinion Owner]

well then you guys already girlfriend and bfs

[Geminigirl97xo]

Or maybe friends with benefits?

[Opinion Owner]

well he said your his girl to his friends so that indicates your his girlfriend

[Geminigirl97xo]

But he added “not officially”

[Opinion Owner]

well fuck friends is it then

[Geminigirl97xo]

How would you ask a girl to be official? Would you ask or just assume you’re together
I hate this whole official bullshit

[Opinion Owner]

Dont need to announce it

[PatriceONeal]

How do you hate the official bullshit? All you've done here is ask everyone how to make it into official bullshit. Why do you have to lie...