I'm in the same situation...(I'm a girl even though my profile says I'm a guy, I didn't understand the signs while registering)...The most that I can make out of it is that he is not ready for a committment just yet...Maybe he needs to get to know you better...or there could be something that you could to glue him to you and it usually starts with the physical...make yourself as attractive as possible without making it look obvious...I noticed this works...Also, try to be casual about everything don't let him know that you want him to ask you out and I've noticed that works too because if you pull away without be obvious then he will push the relationship forward but MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE DRESSING REALLY GOOD AND LOOK AS GOOD AS YOU CAN AROUND HIM WITHOUT BEING OBVIOUS ABOUT IT...I don't know why guys like girls who don't push a relationship forward but that is how they are...
Also, always make it look like you have a life outside of him and that you're a lot of fun! That will get him too
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I didn't ask my former-gf to be my girlfriend. I had no idea there was such a freakish formality to the whole thing. Then again, she has mental problems and she probably had to actually hear the question for it to be real or something (either that or she was one of those fake artsy hipsters who just though "oh well, its real love with this other guy!"...ahem...sorry)
My point is, he may not really understand there to be a formality to the whole thing. Just ask if you two are in a relationship or ask what your status is just so you can be clear. Give a direct question and expect a direct answer. Guys are a lot simpler than you think.
He hasn't asked you because he doesn't have to. He told you he didn't want a girlfriend but you had sex with him anyway. You have entered the "Friend with Benefits" zone.
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sounds like he's just down with friends with benefits. and that's what you seem to be. if he doesn't wanna be your boyfriend then he's just not that into u...sorry
why would he do that? your the girl, you care about the title and stuff, he probably couldn't care less. if you want it you have to ask for it cause really he has no incentives to ask you...
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