She feels I am busy?

[goodtimess]

A woman said she feels like I am busy a lot after askin her to go to the fair with me a month from now. Does she mean i need to start clearing my schedule for her or something sooner?

[TrueConfection]

She's right. You're busier than a doctor's office if you need to clear your schedule for anything that's less than 30 days out.

It's one thing to ask her to plan on an event that's coming up on a specific calendar date, but to say that's what you chose due to your schedule means you are busy (too busy for a relationship in my opinion).

I think she's just acknowledging that you have a life of commitments and she's not actually asking you to clear your schedule.

[goodtimess]

Lol I never looked at it like that. Thank you. I just said a month from now just to gauge and see how interested she would be. I did tell her i am always available to hang out and do fun stuff. We have been flirting for awhile.

[Sarahplus2]

The planning of your date and she probably made a sarcastic remark to you about being busy.

[Avicenna]

Maybe you just need to meet up with her sooner to reassure her

[goodtimess]

You are right. Ill ask her to do something sooner.

[Guy13]

She wants some personal time from you.

[goodtimess]

Yes, she does try to get me alone at work a lot.

[Guy13]

Outside of work…ask me out…. She’s been waiting. They start to think you think they are ugly if you don’t act quickly. If it get to “ugly” then she’s done and you will be like, “say what”….

[goodtimess]

WoW, you nailed it, after the fair convo she was mentioning the gap in her teeth and I joked and said: "Oh yeah I noticed". Then I said, "I am just kidding I would never notice you look great". She smiled after that.

[Guy13]

If you haven’t kissed her tgen that was Code…why not…i floss etc 🙃🙃

[Nikki1989]

She is looking for some quality time with you. 🤔