She is always busy. What should I do?

[Dan4you]

I have met a very kind and beautiful girl in a train station some months ago. We were close to each other, exchanged looks and eventually started to talk. Later, in the train I asked her number, which she gave me. I could tell she was happy. But when later I texted to ask her out she said she was busy. By chance, we have met 2 or 3x since then in the station and talked but she would allways be too busy. This carries on for months, despite my best attempts (and creativity). I can't tell if she likes me or is afraid to say she changed her mind and does want to go out with me. Every time she apologizes but does not give any other option, just busy. I offered to go her home town, in a weekend, where work would not be an issue here but she just gives other excuse.

Girls (and guys), what shoud I do/think about this?

It has been around 6 months... I really like her but I think I extended my patience too much.

Any advice?

[MerraT_22]

Yeah she's not into like that. If she liked you in that way she would at least give you a timeline of when she might be free. Maybe you moved too fast and scared her? You might have been better off talking to her more before you asked her out.

[Dan4you]

She didn't seem scared. I think I did not push it too much. In most of the times we met the conversation was good and sometimes I didn't even mention this. I wanted more time with her so we can talk more. I thought a coffe will be the simplest, most natural way to do so. I find it hard to belive she did not have 10 min for that, she never said no. So I was patient. I just wished she was more honest and direct about it. I would have understood it.

Thank you for your comment.
These insights are gems.

[MerraT_22]

@Dan4you Ok, I understand now. So you had talked a little more before you asked her out. If she really is that busy, ask her if she can give you an estimated time when she won't be so busy where she could possibly met up with you. That way you don't constantly have to ask and be rejected. If she doesn't even attempt to tell you a time, then I would just move on.

[Dan4you]

Ok, thank you!

[Xhuy_006]

Sad to say, but ya been trainzoned. She likes your company, but as a train friend. Maybe one day, but don't keep at it with that intention. Just chill be friends let it be what it is

[Dan4you]

Trainzoned xp. How many "zones" are out there? I kinda felt that, but just wanted a chat to clear it out though..
Thanks

[Iron_Man]

The handwriting seems to be on the walk especially six months later it’s time for you to prepare yourself to move on

[Dan4you]

True, tnkx.

[Iron_Man]

You are very welcome

[Jim___Blakes]

You should stop thinking about her and do your things. If you've nothing to do, develop or improve a hobby or skill.

[Dan4you]

You' re right. Thanks man.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think she’s into you

[Dan4you]

Thought so. Just wanted to give her a chance to be honest about it.
Thank you for your comment.

[WhitneySnow]

You’re welcome