I’ve (M20) been talking with this girl (F18) for 4 months now and the progress has been really slow. We grew close in the beginning when she was going through personal things and then when I went through some personal things 2 months later.
We’ve only been on 2 dates (last one being in the end of February) so by April I was getting ready to give up because at least every 2 weeks after the 2nd date I would ask when she wanted to go out again but she was always busy. I knew that most likely she’s not interested but she would always text me so I was confused.
2 weeks ago I made the decision to just stop trying and just be her friend. Everything was good and we still texted regularly but yesterday threw me off.
She told me that I was special to her and that she likes the mysterious about me because she gets to know me more little by little. Usually she’s able to figure people out quick but with me she can’t. This whole text convo happened after I said that she looked cute at work (I don't know why I said that).
So after hearing I’m special to her my feelings just come back even though I try not to, I just can’t help it. It doesn’t help that I work with her at least 3 days a week and now we’re both being promoted as co-managers so we’ll be working more closely now and spending more time together. Also I’m sure she’s not talking to somebody else, she gave me her phone for like 30 mins yesterday when we were looking at her Spotify. Plus she’s flirty with me at work which throws me off.
I’m just so confused on what I should do, I feel lost. I wouldn’t have known me asking her out 4 months ago would result In me feeling so lost on what to do.
We’ve only been on 2 dates (last one being in the end of February) so by April I was getting ready to give up because at least every 2 weeks after the 2nd date I would ask when she wanted to go out again but she was always busy. I knew that most likely she’s not interested but she would always text me so I was confused.
2 weeks ago I made the decision to just stop trying and just be her friend. Everything was good and we still texted regularly but yesterday threw me off.
She told me that I was special to her and that she likes the mysterious about me because she gets to know me more little by little. Usually she’s able to figure people out quick but with me she can’t. This whole text convo happened after I said that she looked cute at work (I don't know why I said that).
So after hearing I’m special to her my feelings just come back even though I try not to, I just can’t help it. It doesn’t help that I work with her at least 3 days a week and now we’re both being promoted as co-managers so we’ll be working more closely now and spending more time together. Also I’m sure she’s not talking to somebody else, she gave me her phone for like 30 mins yesterday when we were looking at her Spotify. Plus she’s flirty with me at work which throws me off.
I’m just so confused on what I should do, I feel lost. I wouldn’t have known me asking her out 4 months ago would result In me feeling so lost on what to do.
