Is it worth trying this again with this woman, or just let it go?

[Anonymous]

We were talking for a few months, and had plans to meet, although they had gotten delayed because of stuff with her work. She is from Poland, but had studied and now worked in the US for quite a few years. All of a sudden she told me she was interviewing for jobs in Europe, didn't see herself in a long distance relationship, said some nice things about me and hoped I would understand and forgive her, etc. She just sprung this on me in a text, and I tried a few texts and calls over the following weeks, and she just ignored them all! :( She could've at least had a conversation with me about this. As far as I can tell online, she is still working in the US, so yeah. It just sucks because this was a person I could've seen myself being with, and now I'll never know. We also met on a conservative dating app (TheRightStuff), and it's actually not THAT great of an app because I don't get as many matches there as I should, and it would've been nice if the one non-woke dating app is the one I met a spouse on. :/

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough situation man. On one hand, I get why you'd be hurt and annoyed at how she left things with no explanation. That was cold of her. But at the same time, if she didn't want a long distance thing and was thinking of a big move, maybe she realized it just wouldn't work out between you guys. Still could've had an actual conversation though for sure.

I'd say it's probably best to move on at this point. You can't force someone to be with you if they don't want to try a LDR or see a future together. As much as you clicked, she made her choice pretty clear despite how rudely she handled it. It sucks but better to accept it now then keep trying to pursue someone who's not all in. Who knows what was really going on with her.

I'd say focus on meeting some other ladies in your area instead of just online. Maybe through different social circles or activities you enjoy. You'll find someone more available and actually excited to date you soon enough! This rejection stings, but it's not the end of the road either. Keep your head up - you'll get past it and meet an even better girl when you least expect it bro.

[TommyMountainFigure]

The best bit of advice I can give you is, learn to read the signs.

Everything about this is telling me, you mean absolutely nothing to her!

Sorry buddy I really am, but try for a second to distance yourself from her and the above text coming from you..
Now read it through again as if it was someone else in your shoes. See if you can notice all the negatives I can see! If you can, perhaps it will help you learn in future how better to protect yourself from getting hurt so badly!