Hi,
I met this girl. She put her friend (girl - I know her too) to invite me to their table and to introduce me.
After a week I asked her out - at the end a kiss on the cheek, second date a real kiss at the end, third date make out (but no sex). All in one week and she always had time when I asked her out. And she was very enthusiastic about it.
In the last three weeks I asked her 3 times out but she didn't have time. Every time she answered quickly to my messages, she apologize, she said what was she doing. I also text her (without asking her out 2-3 times / week) and all the time she answer quickly and in a nice way. Maybe I'm overreacting but there are still 3 weeks since last time we met and we live in a small town not far away from each other. And I notice a small change, she's not like at the beginning.
My hunch is that I should have had slept with her at our third date I was not exactly fit (had a flu). After I started to kiss her she wanted more but I stopped her. I really like her and find it hot. But maybe I gave her the false message.
Now is tricky: Normally I would stop asking her out and also stop texting her and wait for her move (but she never contacted me first. never!). Should I keep trying asking her out (3 times in a row is already too much), should I put some pressure on her (now or never)?
If my hunch is true how could I fix it?
Thanks
I met this girl. She put her friend (girl - I know her too) to invite me to their table and to introduce me.
After a week I asked her out - at the end a kiss on the cheek, second date a real kiss at the end, third date make out (but no sex). All in one week and she always had time when I asked her out. And she was very enthusiastic about it.
In the last three weeks I asked her 3 times out but she didn't have time. Every time she answered quickly to my messages, she apologize, she said what was she doing. I also text her (without asking her out 2-3 times / week) and all the time she answer quickly and in a nice way. Maybe I'm overreacting but there are still 3 weeks since last time we met and we live in a small town not far away from each other. And I notice a small change, she's not like at the beginning.
My hunch is that I should have had slept with her at our third date I was not exactly fit (had a flu). After I started to kiss her she wanted more but I stopped her. I really like her and find it hot. But maybe I gave her the false message.
Now is tricky: Normally I would stop asking her out and also stop texting her and wait for her move (but she never contacted me first. never!). Should I keep trying asking her out (3 times in a row is already too much), should I put some pressure on her (now or never)?
If my hunch is true how could I fix it?
Thanks
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