Would you date someone who is opposite to you?

Question

do you believe in opposites attract?

Rania05 · Accepted Answer

I'd believe in it, I want someone total opposite to date, only we can get along if he has manners and enough EQ. I'm introvert attracted to extroverts, I like my space and peace of mind but I like more someone who pulls me to explorations, I love sweets and spicy food but I'd like someone who love other types of food and would share his likes with me as I try to understand them, I like simple clothes, accessories and makeup but I'd love someone who's like a peacock and shines just by looking at him in my eyes, I'm not a sports person but if my partner is it would motive me to keep up with his pace, I collect my money only to spend it on small luxuries that are worth it at once but if my partner is a money's spender or even more frugal than me it would be the good whichever it's, I love books but I'd love someone who's more into TV shows, news and trends to exchange informations and interests, I'm more into spiritual bond than physical one but if we get married and my partner reveals being sexually hungry I'd try cope with him, I don't like using the emotional card in arguments but facts so it would annoy me if he isn't more of a rational and logical person than a dreamer (Funny thing, I'm Pisces and I'm supposed to be the one with head over clouds but I don't), I'm an empathetic person but if I get too annoyed I'd put myself first than tolerate what irritates me so he better knows his bounds than cross the line, basically "No would still be no if you don't give me time to consider carefully whether to give in"

Blackcosmo · Accepted Answer

Not everything can be the opposite. They should still share good traits.  I'm introverted and I wouldn't mind dating someone who is extroverted.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Yes, I do believe that opposites attract... but more so in a lustful way than a long term productive relationship way. When you have that opposite attract thing going, the sexual tension can get pretty heavy and its amazing fun. But relationship wise it can turn ugly fast, so it all depends on the the other person.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I woukd not as there needs to be some shared commonalities. Dating and Relationships are already hard but totally opposite is going to be highly conflicted.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I just date whoever I feel mutually attracted with. Didn’t really think if we’re opposites or similar.

menina · Answer

I don't believe that opposites attract. When two people are together they must have some things in common. Otherwise they're most likely to break up.

So no, I wouldn't date someone who was the totally opposite of me.

slatyb · Answer

Opposite in what way? I'm not religious and don't date believers. I don't smoke and wouldn't date someone who did.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

I actually would only date a person who is balanced. If they are Same as me, won't date.. if they are total opposite won't date.

dustybiker · Answer

A true opposite would be someone who grates my nerves (as I would them, naturally). No. I wouldn’t. It wouldn’t be healthy or happy.

Càitjet · Answer

Never again. Don't think they attract at all. You need something to bounce off something to communicate about, if you have different views constantly conversation would be non existent or just shit.

jhl_x · Answer

Opposites attract when talking about magnets and school-level jokes about crushes. I'd go for someone similar to me for dating in every possible scenario.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nah you have to share and be compatible, tried it before and it just creates a running area where you cannot talk about stuff etc,

Berethor · Answer

Opposites attract is a myth, you need to have common goals or the relationship would not last.

4xiom · Answer

No.

"Opposite attracts" is a myth. Scientific research is very clear about that. People are attracted to people with similar values. In the scientific community, all serious debates about that have stopped decades ago.

mmaaaa · Answer

yes, as long as the important values and morals don't conflict

finesxed_j · Answer

i date who i like n who likes me back so if we happen to be opposites cool if we r the same dope

Guardian45 · Answer

Opposites may attract, but it's a scientific fact that successful couples are similar and complementary.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Well I enjoyed being a very clean man and if I dated a woman who was my opposite that means she be a dirty pig who hates cleaning up after herself and I can't picture myself dating someone like that.

exitseven · Answer

I did this once. She was the opposite of all the girls i ever dated. It was fun at first because we did a lot of different thing s but after a while I was tired of it.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yep, I'm a dog man, and a cute cat woman, js someone I would never turn down.

hahahmm · Answer

That's the whole point of male & female attraction... until feminists thought it was a good idea to try and act like men.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I have l, it's always interesting getting to know someone with a totally different point of view. Also you're very sexy 😉

Calamine1dp · Answer

What exactly do you mean by opposites. There has to be some shared interests or at least a willingness by both to try the others interests. But I think anybody can be attracted to anyone. Might lead to love, might not.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Not really. I don't want someone exactly like me but opposite would be too much work.

sheikalana · Answer

I tried once and I just could not do it again.

katestar · Answer

What about the girls? That was a opposite idea for a female.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes but we have nothing in common what’s the point I’m not looking for a bossy librarian that hates sports 🏈

Anonymous · Answer

As long as you're agreeable. You'd look like you'd give easy, so I wouldn't mind you.

KatherineJ · Answer

Well, my husband is a man, so yep.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends what you meant about opposites. If you meant like something like liberals vs conservatives. Nope I would not. But if you meant something like indoor vs outdoor. I wouldn't mind.

EaterPeter · Answer

That's super scary. People have more than enough hidden to differ.

Anonymous · Answer

I have tried that, and it just didn't work.

Johnthompson418 · Answer

It all depends on the opposite

LavLavLuv · Answer

been there done that

Pejtu · Answer

Nah not really

OddBeMe · Answer

I’d theorize 15-20% difference.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

In certain way yes definitely

LazerBean · Answer

Nope

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Yea I believe so

Blackcupcake · Answer

yes.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Maybe.

Fuentes · Answer

Probably not

Anonymous · Answer

Not likely.

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