So a trans-person. I ask this because I have a friend that is transferred and would want to make a transformation, but is scared that he will never find a partner.
Explain your answer, please 😊
I wouldn't say they'd NEVER find a partner, but they'd be narrowing their options a lot. I'd never do it. You are what you were born as; breasts and lack of junk don't make a woman. Neither do artificially injected hormones. Also, research shows that trans people are no happier (at least a few months) after surgery than before, and have the same (shockingly high) suicide rates. It just doesn't make for good dating material. I could have a trans person as a friend (if they weren't too offended at my insistence of their birth gender) but romantic relationships are special.
Would you date a girl/guy who has been the opposite gender before?
No. I'm only attracted to biological women.
I could be wrong, but I don't think Maria Doroshina (the girl in the video thumbnail) is transgender.
I'm not even sure if it is her. 😅
Searched her on the Internet and found something about transformations. Maybe it is her then. She looks quite fake, but I guess fitness models mostly are. Not sure about if she is trans or not. But the girl on the pic seems to have quite similar features to the guy in the before picture. So hard to tell.
You can tell it's not the same person. Different eye shape, different nose, different eyebrow shape, the guy has more of a square jawline whereas she doesn't, even the teeth are slightly different. The bone structure doesn't change either - a transgender woman wouldn't have a bone structure like that ^
@englisc eyeshape look different because the guy has them almost closed. Eyebrows can be remade. It is really easy to make them thinner. Just pull a few of them out. Nose and face has the same shape to me. And I face a really good eye when it comes to faces and which face looks like the other.
But however, the guy has dimples. I don't see them on the girl. Maybe she got rounder cheeks or maybe she isn't the same person.
*facepalm*
Her name is Maria Doroshina. She's an Instagram model.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yW02gO0E1_Y
Well on the video she looks quite manly. Look at the chin! and her boobs are so fake.
😂😂 I'm only more convinced she could really be trans
So you know this model personally or just followed her more? I have never even heard of her
I don't know her personally and I don't follow her or even have an Instagram myself. I just know she's a biological woman. It's not that hard to figure out.
https://www.instagram.com/doroshina/?hl=en
Well, do you think Janet Mock looks like a woman?
https://www.instagram.com/janetmock/
She has actually been a man before. So I don't think you have any good facts to rely on with your opinion either. And why does it matter so much? It's not like I made the video.
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...candy_n_6335864.html
In some of those examples why they would like to transform into the other gender if some are very nice looking with the gender they were born with., I dont understand why they want to change? Some of course look better in the other gender tan the ones they were born with.
Also I will never date a girl/guy but I prefer I will never know they were once another gender if I end up dating one.
I think it's such a huge part of their life that they would share it with you at some point.
I agree with you, some probably haven't done the transform completely in those and seem that way a little odd in the after pic.
The fact that they have been beautiful of handsome before doesn't change that they feel like they have born to the wrong gender. I think this is something that is hard to understand for us who aren't trans. For me too, but I guess I don't really have to understand it completely as far as I don't judge them and this is why I accept and respect their choice.
My friend, he is handsome but he feels so odd in his own body that he questions it every day. He doesn't feel comfortable being a guy and I know he would be happier as a woman.
I dropped my jaw at some of those pictures, cause they legit look like men. That's kinda scary thinking you like a guy or being approached by one but they are really women. But no, I'm sorry I can't, their DNA/chromosome still says they are female and there's no way I can have kids with a trans man plus I'm not gay. We could totally be friends though but that's about it.
I'm sorry but its a no, I'm fully supportive of Transgender but for me I can always tell when someone is, from the face shape and shoulders, Also the genitalia wouldn't be the same even after they've been assigned a new gender, If I were a male I wouldn't like the idea of my partners clit being what was the tip of his used to be penis.
I mean I'm bi (pan, whatever) so I really don't give a shit what your junk looks like or what gender you identify as when it comes to potential relationships 😂
I would if he looks male and has the genitals I prefer. He can't get me pregnangt so that's a nonus lol
Haha! Good point ☺
I think I agree.
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The problem is, you can always tell.
That sex-change surgery and the hormones don't magically make you look like the other gender, they make you look like a monstrosity trying to look like the other gender.
Even with airbrushing and photoshop in professional photos, you can always tell something is just "off."
I would never date a trans-person because a trans-person is not female. A female has the female sex organs and carries offspring. I will only date a biological genetic female that self-identifies as a female and embraces her femininity. If a guy would want to date a male-to-female trans person then that's his lifestyle choice, but I am straight and will only accept a real biological genetic female that identifies as female and embraces her femininity.
I only want a woman who was born female, whose life experiences have been 100% female, who identifies as female and celebrates her natural femininity. And a big part of that is her uniquely female sexuality. All the surgeries and drugs in the world can't make a man into a woman or a woman into a man.
All I feel is pity for people who suffer from sexual dysphoria.
well as a transgender, male to female, I can tell you that trans status does not stop a lot of people. In fact, there are men who actively seek out trans women- knowing they are trans.
Unfortunately, a lot of men becoming women still look very masculine which turns me off in most cases but not all.
Blatantly I think I want at least one kid of my own. And maybe to adopt past then.
So I don't think I can get the relationship I want with a trans person.
Yeah sure, why not? I don't plan on having any kids myself anyways, maybe I'll adopt.
I would because to me, it only matters the gender they are now. But I don't know how I would feel if they didn't get a surgery done first.
i wouldn't mind, who am i to judge the person before even getting to know the person
Let me put it this way: If I am buying a 1972 Ford Mustang muscle car then I expect to be sold a 1972 Ford Mustang muscle car. Not a 2004 Saturn Ion sedan that has had a few parts replaced to make it look like a Mustang.
And before anyone asks, yes I am gay.
No because I am looking for a serious relationship and if we got married we couldn't have biological children.
@guyuser2 to me yes
Nope, I like my men completely straight and born that way, just not my thing.
Nothing against them as peoplease but it's not my thing.
Theoretically I would, but I haven't been attracted to anyone Trans yet.
Nope. Only biological women. I'm not transphobic and I support their rights and inclusion but I prefer biological women. Attraction is not necessarily politically correct.
As of right now, it is not something I would be comfortable with.
Probably not, no. I wouldn't rule it out completely but I think I'd find it a turn off.
No, I would not, because I would like to have a kid or two who are my own.
I just want to be with a natural born female. Plain and simple.
No. I really want the real thing and not a rehab or renovated.
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