Trying to find a rebound after this fucker took my virginity and fooled me of wanting something real and ended up ghosting me >> his best friend popped on my screen on a dating app. Stuiped crushing me still waiting for that fucker to write me. The other crazy part really want to swipe right on that friend of his and maybe have this sweet revenge and piss him off a little. Help me think clearly please
If he filled your head with lies then ghosted, I doubt he would care at all if you dated his friend. I’m sorry, I totally get you being upset and wanting revenge, but you have to take some accountability too even if it’s just a little bit. Sex is already a pretty big decision, but giving your virginity to a man you met online that you’d only had 3 dates with just sounds like a poor choice in general. I think your best move would be to heal and learn from this situation so that it won’t happen again. Because you can’t take back what you gave him but you can control choosing a better man in the future.
As tempting as revenge might seem, don’t do it. Friend could be an even bigger asshole than the guy or (on the flip side) he could be a total sweetheart getting sucked into that and could get hurt. The guy who took my virginity in 2007 left me the next day, so I understand why you feel that way but don’t do it. You’re only bringing yourself down to his level by right swiping his friend, so left swipe him and move on.
That guy is fucked up geez. Yeah you gotta be mindful of who you put your faith in. He got what he wanted and dipped. How long did you know him/were you talking to him? I mean that guy must've been pretty crafty to do that if that was his plan for a longer period of time, still fucked up regardless though. But revenge isn't gonna do anything. It's just a waste of time. Try to move on and forget about the whole situation if you can
What does that matter? Why does it seem like you’re holding a grudge and want revenge
That’s toxic and immature af. Just date with seeking good honest connections
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He realised quick you are crazy, and it's wrong to date crazy.
Best you let this game go and become a lonely cat lady. There are enough crazy people in the world, don't want you adding.
Swipe right if you want, but you aren't going to be getting much revenge by doing it, unfortunately. That dude won't care who you bang; he already got what he wanted.
Ok that doesn't just sound fucked up, it is fucked up. You date someone because you want to be with them, not for some fucked up revenge plan.
Dudes don't care if we didn't date you and your just a chick we smashed we will encourage our homie to fuck you. Theirs no revenge we don't care about chick's getting passed.
if your female friend screwed a guy over and that guy wanted revenge and saw your picture and decided to swipe right and his only objective was for revenge to piss off your female friend how would that make you feel? why fool with someone's emotions like that? that's just coldhearted manipulating a person's emotions who's done you no wrong
Being a friend doesn't mean he is like him. And you'd be using him for revenge, which isn't fair to him (the friend). Does the friend "deserve" that treatment?
No; because then his friend will fuck you and ghost you, too.
And they'll both have a good laugh about it together at your expense.
What did you expect from a dating app? At your age you are surrounded by men who would love to date you, but you chose a Chad Thundercock from a dating app. Of course he ghosted you.
rebound revenge sex?
no. no wonder you're only 18-24, immature af
swipe left on anyone you think the devil is trying to persuade you on
„Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice…“
Yes but petend you don't know they are best friends and act your normal nice self. :)
Of course you should.
Stay away with anything to do with him.!!
"Help me think clearly". 🤣🤣🤣
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