Am I right to feel left out?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend of one year is going on a trip to another country tonight and he just told me few hours before. He did this a month ago going to another country with friends for the weekend telling me again last minute. I only asked to be included and be updated to not feel left out. We talked about this already and he apologized and said it won’t happen again. This is the 1000 time he just does stuff and doesn't invite me or share his excitement with me. Now he’s calling me but I don’t feel like talking to him i’m sad and frustrated. He claims we are in a committed relationship. Wouldn’t you wanna include your girlfriend? I left him a text on how I feel and that’s why he called me. I got exhausted from talking about this all over.

[Bee-Hatch]

Doesn't sound like you're a priority to him. These are just trips with friends and you're not invited. That's no way to be treated.

[LazerBean]

I mean it's not working out so you may as well dump him.

[JohnK123]

Lmao what if it’s a family trip?

[LazerBean]

There is no indicator that it is, and she has said he goes out frequently with friends and never invites her.

Regardless of who is right and who is wrong though, if a person is not happy in a relationship then the relationship is not going to work so it's pointless to continue.

[Asker]

Yeah it happened very often for me to get frustrated the first few times was cool till it became a pattern. We talked and he said he organized it last minute and will come back in the evening.

[JohnK123]

No because trips are expensive and ur only dating….