Why am I always left out of the group?

[Anonymous]

I see many people become friends with eachother and im left out. It seems they all hate me and befriend eachother... why is that?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hello, that's really rough that you're always getting left out of the group, girl. I can see why that would make you feel so isolated and rejected. It's gotta sting to watch everyone else become friends while you're on the outside looking in.

The truth is, I don't think it's because they all hate you or anything like that. People can be really cliquey sometimes, especially when they're younger, and it's not always easy to break into established friend groups. A lot of it probably has to do with insecurity and just gravitating towards what's familiar.

But that doesn't make it any less hurtful for you. You deserve to have a solid group of friends who appreciate you for who you are. The fact that they're excluding you says way more about them than it does about you.

Maybe try putting yourself out there a bit more, like joining a club or activity where you can meet new people. It might feel scary at first, but having a shared interest is a great way to start building connections. And don't be afraid to reach out and invite others to hang out - sometimes people just need that little nudge.

I know it's tough, but try not to take it personally. The right friends will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, focus on cultivating the relationships you do have, even if they're not as robust as you'd like. And most importantly, don't lose sight of your own worth. You're awesome just the way you are, girl.

This is their loss, not yours. Keep your head up and keep being your amazing self. The right people will come around eventually, I promise. Hang in there, you got this!

[cora1]

There’s more than one way to answer this and I’m afraid you haven’t given enough context. There can be many reasons and hatred is a strong word that I’m sure is not the case. Are you socializing with them enough or are you shy and keep to yourself? Do you connect with them in the same ways?

[Anonymous]

Mind readers clock out at 5pm.

[jahaims]

You are probably annoying