Girls, do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date?

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One of the major points a lot guys and especially the incel types on here will say is that one major reason it is harder for guys to get dates than girls is simply due to the smaller pool of options guys have to choose from then girls.

so why not ask you directly? Do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date? And if so do you feel thats a benefit for you girls?

Girls, do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date?

weasley8 · Accepted Answer

I have plenty of options, but I also know that the same isn't true for all girls. People who are seen as more attractive, be it physically or because of their personality, will always have more options than those who are seen as unattractive. That's true for guys and girls. It's also true that those who have more options also tend to be more picky. Because they can afford to be picky, and everyone wants the best they can get.

Every Incel I've ever met, whether it's online or in person, could fix their problems if they fixed their attitude toward women. They like to blame their appearance, because that allows them to shift the responsibility onto women, while they throw their hands up and cry that there's nothing more for them to do. No. The problem is that they don't view women as people, and we can see straight through their act. Because we've been seeing it all our lives.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Too large, yup... way too large and its like filtering through to eliminate the 90% that just want sex and nothing more.

I logged into a dating site the other day for the first time in over six months, just curious as not to hit up on anyone and had over a thousand messages that guys literally have to pay to send to me... like geez, it showed I had been offline for months. Now I feel bad, cause it shows active in the last day or so, probably get a ton more messages.

I guess I just need to delete it, save those guys some money and hope.

Large dating pools aren't that great though, unless all I wanted was dating and nothing more... then yup.

If however I wanted something serious, long term committed relationship with a family then it gets drastically smaller and harder to see if someone is lying or not with what they want.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Not really. At least not guys who are attractive to me, or remotely good at communication which is a big attraction feature for me. Honestly most guys SUCK at talking to girls and it's annoying having to carry the conversation all the time.

menina · Answer

"Do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date?" - I can't speak for other women but I can say that I don't have a large pool of guys to choose from. If I wanted to date a guy from where I live I would be screwed Lol

loves2learn · Answer

It has been a lonnnnng time since I was in the dating pool, but back in the early 2000s? No. It was small. I was ignored.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

Every woman has options. she doesn't have to be attractive, personality-wise as well as physically, to be asked out.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Good lord yes… on a college campus? I’ve never been asked out this much in my entire life!

petitedollbabee · Answer

Not really. I’m very picky.

kikissss · Answer

Yes I am just picky!

Girls, do you feel like you have a large pool of guys to choose from to date?

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Guys only (<35), how desired do you feel in the dating market?

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Guys only (<35), how desired do you feel in the dating market?

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