Guys only (<35), how desired do you feel in the dating market?

[morganherrel]

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age 35 and lower

[Summeroflove]

I’m not 35 plus but as I’ve said before remember they whole thing about quality verses quantity.

Because okay a man in his thirties who has his crap together, has money, is financially stable, and the list goes on. Let’s just say not all the women who are into this man are into this man for the right reasons, in essence to build a genuine connection. Many are choosing him because he has money among other things. They see him as a provider, someone to offer security, social status, and the list goes on. Not saying those are bad things but at the same time if someone’s only looking for that narcissist at best and psychopath at worst.

Men and women both need to be VERY careful who they’re dating and make sure there isn’t a ulterior motive. Especially, when marriage is trying to be locked down as soon as possible.

Because what if she’s a narcissist love bombing him. But she’s someone who makes very poor financial choices, spends all his money, nags constantly, and cheats. You don’t want that especially if she plans on divorcing and taking what she can get her hands on. There are women who do this… men too but sometimes these women are the the ones screwed over. Then they cry that they have nothing oh boo hoo

[LiamJHayden]

Around 5. But that is fine, as I'm fearless in approaching so I still do fine.

[morganherrel]

5 is good man, all the best

[FunkyMonkee]

Not at all! Got my first girlfriend at 24, she told me she was just using me to make another guy jealous. There was no dating.
My 2nd girlfriend (I had just turned 26) was already headed into her 3rd nervous breakdown when we got together but I had no idea that's what was going on until a week later when she completely flipped her burgers and HAD to be put into the Ha-Ha Hotel for 6 months!!
My 3rd girlfriend came to me via a Dr. I was seeing and she seemed to really honestly like me but, I just couldn't feel the same about her so, rather than pretend, I let her go. No dates there, either.
My 4th came along just after I turned 34. We were together for 10 years but never actually dated. I met her at a gig and bumped into her again on the street weeks later and we just got very friendly and then became an item without a single date.
After her, there's been no one but a second attempt with girlfriend 2 which never went past a couple weeks.
I only ever had one date back in my late 20's and that never went past the first one.
Actually, I DID ask one college mate on a date and we had a nice time but, she wanted someone else that I didn't know about. And another college mate went out with me to a movie but, she asked if a mutual close friend could come along. Shortly after the movie started, she and he were exclusive so, I just got up and left.
So, no, I've NEVER been desired as far as dating.

[Anonymous]

When I was 22 and right out of college I felt like a 0 on the dating market. By 27 I felt like a 7 or 8. In my early 30s maybe an 8 or 9.

Bottom line: it gets better as a dude so long as you focus on improving in your career and in building a cool social life and some hobbies.

[Anonymous]

A lot more than I used to. But I'm older now, more sure of myself, and a lot more financially secure.

My only problem is I've seen so much from women I'm pretty gun shy. I got a lot to lose now by choosing the wrong woman. So it takes a lot to convince me life is better off not remaining single.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'm getting banned because of age?

See you in court

[RavVid]

Early thirties are your peak period.

[Anonymous]

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[morganherrel]

I feel for you brother
Best of luck