Im 20 and never had boyfriend?

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I'm 20 and never had boyfriend, I don't use social media no smoke, no drugs no alcohol. I'm a bit shy but extrovert in some points. I'm shy toward males. Although guys often tell me that they like how I look like etc but I don't know how to build relationship and I feel like I will die as single.

Middleman · Accepted Answer

Honestly it’s perfectly normal to still be single at 20. That is still a very young age so you have plenty of chances.

As to meeting guys and building a relationship, well you could start with this question - how did your own parents meet each other? They obviously had to start somewhere, so perhaps you could ask them for some insights.

As to meeting guys, you mention you don’t smoke or drink but also are a bit shy. You should therefore go to places that you may be comfortable with and reflect who you are - like health clubs, yoga or cookery classes (for example). Go where your interest takes you - and you may find the right person. And if that doesn’t work, ask close friends or family to see if they know someone trustworthy who could be a potential match for you. Those are some of the things I’d do to find a match if I were a girl.

Ευδεμονια · Accepted Answer

Girl, don’t be worried. You’re so young and you’ll have plenty of opportunities in the future. I’m talking as one who hasn’t been ever engaged, and you can see my age.
Do you go at university? Or maybe have you considered joining some sports or hobby groups? It can really help to meet new people with common interests. You said you’re shy but have a common field with someone can be of help! And don’t be worried to talk with males, we aren’t sharks and we won’t eat you.
Don’t be scared and don’t feel judged, you’re a young and healthy person and you’ll have your opportunities if you only take a little courage to show a bit more yourself.

ZS007 · Accepted Answer

girl I feel you soooo much. you just described my feelings. I'm more of an introvert though but I still go out with friends. It's so hard meeting new people. I agree with others if you like someone make a move. I did that twice it didn't work out but it's something.

Cherry234 · Accepted Answer

Dw you're young. You're only 20. I'm 24 and I've never had a boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never known an extrovert to be shy. It's usually introverts. Most introverts on the far end of the introvert spectrum seem to be like extroverts. If you have go to worship service some Churches have a youth program meaning young adults 18+. Colleges and universities have activities for the students. If there is a college or university in your hometown you may want to check it out. You don't have to be a student to go to the activities that they put on unless they require an ID card. You can be invited with some of your girlfriends.

HelloSofi97 · Answer

Well, you need to put in some effort too. If you find a guy you like…. make that step to tell him you like him. Can’t sit around doing nothing while waiting for Mr. Right to come along on his own because that might not happen at all.

chicosuave · Answer

Get into dating apps. There's hinge and fb dating. Don't use tinder or bumble. Most guys there only want to have sex. But not the apps I mentioned. Most guys are more serious in hinge or on fb dating. Good luck

Dnc_21 · Answer

Don't worry, this degenerate society just wants you to be like a sheep and sleep around with many men to please their needs like some men here wants you to be. There's nothing wrong with being single at that age. You should be proud you're unique...

BHooper · Answer

Im almost 22 and in the same situation as you. I've been extremely insecure most my life so I never put myself out there. If you'd like to talk, my dms are always open.

tony_love_girls · Answer

Hehe. Shame of you girl, I have 4 girl friends they are from Uk, Usa, Africa, ... ohh 4th one is I forgot it..

Anonymous · Answer

I'm like you. How about we two having a chat

Anonymous · Answer

And is there a question somewhere here? Or did you just post this for people to feel sorry for you? 😆

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Watch your friends, how do they do it?

Anonymous · Answer

Do some approaching also. Don't wait for guys to.

Anonymous · Answer

You're shy like SMOLRUG on Instagram huh

Anonymous · Answer

What are you waiting for?

Fuentes · Answer

Your only 20

Anonymous · Answer

You're boring

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