25 and never had a boyfriend before?

[Anonymous]

I always feel so invisible/unwanted to men. I am a 25 year old dark skin black women and I've never had a boyfriend before. I've never been on a date before. I try my hardest to take care of myself, I am 5'5 and 125 lbs. I just never get asked out or approached. I very very very rarely get hit on. I am also too shy/scared to be proactive with men because I am scared that men won't like me because of my race. I tried downloading a dating app but I didn't like it very much. The conversations always fizzled out and no one seemed serious. I would honestly prefer to meet someone in person. At the rate I am going, I feel like I'll never find someone and that I am forever alone. It's difficult not to look at myself and cry and think there is something seriously wrong with me. Any advice would suffice honestly.

[OneManOnly01]

Keep socialising and expanding your social circle. Focus just on that rather than finding guys. Then leave it to the guys to approach you. You’ll have much better chances that way

[Ironic_Method]

Gotta get used to rejection! Keep putting yourself out there and going for it, it'll eventually come around.

[Browneye57]

Ah, here we go... another victim. Dear lord.
Reminds me of the old adage, "Whether you think you can or you cannot, you're right."

[najekim]

Grow your social network as much as you can, both men & women, and keep in mind it more likely you'll find someone when you're not actively searching for a relationship.

[IHateBeingaMan]

its more shocking to hear of a girl being single this long compared to a guy because girls always have guys hitting on them

[zagor]

Where do you go to meet people? Do you have friends you can confide in?

[Anonymous]

Have you tried online dating or dating apps?

[seanscoopers]

Sure you can date me