I'm 27 years old and never had a boyfriend before, I've never kisses someone, and I'm still a virgin. It makes me feel so depressed and lonely. What do you think about my situation?
I'm 27 years old and never had a boyfriend?
If you feel that way, it was wise that you didn't get in a relationship because it cannot thrive with you being depressed and unhappy. You have to be already happy. There is nothing wrong with you. You have to start doing things and guys will be attracted to you naturally not: misery loves company. And that is NOT attractive. Find somebody you can get married to and share a life with if you can wait that long at 27. Because remember it gets harder to find a perspective mate as you get older. I'm not trying to scare you or make you more depressed about it, but its the truth. Especially for us women, we get it harder than guys. More so when you want children. Its a lot to really think about. Also I believe you aren't ready still for a relationship. Not like this. So get your mind cleared, stop getting depressed and move on with life. Somebody is bound to be interested in you, but you have to think and use your head. Ask critical questions early on and to be honest with yourself. Don't jump into a situation your not comfortable with or ready for. Because that person is going to expect you to give your 100% commitment every single day if it ever becomes official. Can't do it? Best to remain single until you can. Sorry.
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Well I don't know you personally and I don't know what your interests or priorities are. Having a first kiss doesn't have to be with the most special guy ever, it's just a kiss and going out will give you many opportunities to have a first kiss, now, if you're a shy person, try hanging out with quiet people or people that have the same interests as you so both of you can be comfortable :). Don't be depressed, some people's situations are just different than others and that's just fine, you might be looking for those experiences in the wrong place :).
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All in good timing, someone will come or you can change it by putting yourself out in dating world. I'm sure someone has had interest in you before but probably didn't have the courage to ask.
Do you consider yourself pretty, average or ugly? If either of the two latter are you willing to do anything about it?
Do you engage in conversation with guys? Are you positive or negative in your attitude?
How often do you get involved in social acitivites either with friends, as a group or part of a club? If rarely, are you willing to join a club or volunteer to get yourself noticed more often?
Your still young is what I'm getting at and you should be making a valiant effort to fix your situation.
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Nothing wrong with that. I am 28 years old and I have always been single and I have no regrets whatsoever, in fact I am proud of it.
Hence there is nothing wrong with you being single at 27 years of age, no need to feel bad about it. You shouldn't pay attention to what people say about you.
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I think that you can't change the past but changing the future is in your hands. Try to change your attitude, put yourself out there and start being more active in finding a partner. Don't wait for men to approach you, do it yourself. Are you insecure? I was too years ago, it can be worked on and completely improved, things do change completely.
One thing is certain: if you do nothing, 27 more years will pass and your situation won't have changed yet. - 403 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
If you were 17, then that's normal. But 27?
You need to seriously have a honest look at yourself to see what you're doing wrong. What you can do that you're not doing. What kind of bullshit advice you've subscribed to that's actually hurting you rather than helping you.
Here's a tip - don't ever take dating advice from women. It never works. - 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
A relationship will not fix you. You have to be happy and comfortable in your own skin. And really ask yourself why you haven't had any luck with dating. Work on yourself.
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well, go get one, ask a guy out, your a girl, guys love you.
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There's no need to be depressed about it. You've got the opportunity to find the love of your life!
If you explain a bit more about why you think you're single, we can work on that. -
Why do you think you have always been single? Don't take this the wrong way but the reason why I find it more unusual for a girl to be single this long compared to a guy it's because girls don't have to be the initiators
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I think you should get out start communicating with pool in person instead of online... Might be surprised ..
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I'm 16 and almost the same ayeeee! I've been kissed before, but that's the only difference. So I feel ya fam! 😓
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ohh, sorry about that.
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So why have you allowed this to happen?
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Woww why is that?
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It's okay! :)
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