How to convince my girlfriend to stay with me?

[Bizimortam]

[MoniqueTLC]

You shouldn't need to convince anyone to stay with you. If she's made up her mind, there's nothing you can and should do.

Let's say you do 'convince' her to stay with you, are you not always going to have this insecurity/uncertainty in the back of your mind that she's going to want to leave you at some point?

You deserve to be with someone who CHOOSES you. Whether the supposed issue is you, or something on her end, it doesn't matter. It's tough, and it will hurt but if she wants to go, let her. Have a conversation with her to understand why or what it is that she's thinking or feeling. This will more importantly help you.

[Moose304]

I was talking to a guy this past weekend who came home from work Friday to find his girl had moved out. No note, just got her things and left. He is hurt but seems to be holding it together. He is 32 and said she was 25. He makes a good living and drives a nice car. I told him he had been replaced. I know several ladies that will fix him up later when he is ready. How do you convince anybody to stay? The short answer is you can't. I do highly recommend doing a self-assessment of you! Hopefully, you have a friend that will be honest if you ask them. However, most of the time when someone leaves a relationship it means they found what they think is greener grass.

[ethanallen]

You need to google "Red pill men" and "female nature and hypergamy." Every man should know that women under 30 are going to ride the cock carousel. After 30, a women's social value declines precipitously so she will grab onto any guy (settle) and marry him. Men should enjoy fucking temporary girls under 30. Never ever marry a woman. As long as a man lives, he will be able to find young girls with amazing pussy to fuck. If he marries, he will be stuck with an old, aging, nasty, bitchy wife who stopped putting out after the first kid and her vagina went limp after the third kid.

[Blackcosmo]

If the reason she wants to leave you is about something she's starting to dislike about you that you can change for the better, than show her you can change.

If it's something you can;t control and it's most likely her own problem then there's not much that can be done and it would be her fault.

[Pinay_ako]

You can’t keep a person who’s already left… if she wants to stay, you don’t have to do much.

[FreedMan]

Value yourself and give her the boot. You shouldn't need to negotiate, bribe, or otherwise convince a person to see value in you. If they don't then that's fine. Bid them well and move on with your life. Don't look back and don't fawn over her. There's BILLIONS of women on the planet. Put that into perspective. She's 1. And regardless of your relationship she's not unique. No one truly is, man or woman. There are 1000s if not millions of people you can be compatible with. No point wasting your most valuable resource on a person who doesn't want it.

[BobSansMal]

Be yourself. Your true honest unapologetic self. Do things with her that you enjoy, and things that she enjoys. She may come to more enjoy the time with you and decide to stay, which would be wonderful. If she decides to leave, then she's saved you from a hellish relationship, wasted time, etc... and that's wonderful also.

[ElementoP]

Say, "Please don't leave me! I NEED you! You're the only good thing about my life and if you leave I'll kill myself!"

Then get on your knees and cry and beg her to stay

[Bizimortam]

I'd rather die than beg her

[HonestAssholeJ]

Bring in a hotter girlfriend and give the new girlfriend all the attention.

She will either get jealous and stay or leave.

Either way you win.

[DermalPunch]

You gave no details. Perhaps your issue in the relationship is that you don't make an effort to express yourself?🤷‍♀️

[Bizimortam]

We've been together for 2 months, I want to stay in the same room with her, that's all.

[Chazmatazz269]

You can’t. She has to make that decision herself. If she’s already talking about leaving, just end the relationship now for the sake of you both.

[Exterminatore]

Tell her: “the door is over there, walk through it.”


If you have to convince her to be with you she should not be with you.


I don’t know you but I’m positive you deserve better.

[Rania05]

Communication solve it all, talk about the whys and how comes, TA-DA 🎉 everything is solved!

[dustybiker]

Lure. Don’t convince. Give her a reason to want to stay.

[exitseven]

It is really hard to do without sounding desperate which will have the opposite effect.

[bean2k21]

Bro, I don't know. I'm usually trying to convince them it's time to leave.

[Anonymous]

The worst thing you can do is try to convince her to stay. The more needy you seem, the more you push her away.

[FilmGuy93]

Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

[TacosRAwesome]

Fix what's causing her to want to leave you.

[Blueeyes81]

You don't. If you succeed today you won't tomorrow. The seeds of doubt are there and will only grow.

[EarthRealm]

Then get a shovel

[JPresidente]

Don't force the issue. Go no contact and see if she returns. Then you'll know how she feels.

[ArtemisSilver]

Be the kind of person that shines brightly enough that no convincing is required

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You don't. If you have to try to convince someone to stay with you then they aren't for you. Let her go.

[pizzalovershouse]

You can't make some one stay if the feelings for you are gone

[Gloree]

By marrying her. Not every woman wants to live with a man who has not put a ring on it

[EarthRealm]

That’s called being a Dumbass

[GlassTop]

Marrying in 2022? You must be crazy.

[Twalli]

Why wouldn't she? She agreed to be with you to start.

[Slim57]

Don't if she wants to leave let her

[anewme]

Eat her ass white folks always do that

[slatyb]

Why is she leaving?

[Anonymous]

Duct tape.