Girls constantly tell me they feel no spark after the first date?

[red324]

So I meet these girls online and the few times they do give me feedback they say they just didn't feel a spark. Like the girl I went out with tonight said we had good conversation and you didn't do anything wrong, but I just know what kind of personality meshes well with mine. Fair enough. What I don't get is why do they throw in the towel so quickly? Like I usually don't know what to think about a girl after only one date, but I do know if I want to see them again.

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My main frustration is I think they should put more time into a person then just one date. Unless the date was just horrible where it was obvious the conversation didn't even flow etc.

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Next time I'll just ask what she thought of me then depending on her answer I'll tell her yeah you weren't very exciting either. I'm tired this bs honestly.

[Shamalien]

Make her panties wet or she loses interest, that’s the hidden key they hide from young men. All this respecting her boundaries bullshit gets you friendzoned. Women want a bold man who takes risks

[Libertycityguy]

do you have any women who are just your friend? i would ask them for advice and tell them to be brutally honest. you might be doing something that you don't know about.

[maximumpower]

If they're telling you that after first date, it's already over - regardless of whether you would like to see them again.

[warren_zevon]

Because they got dinner out of you which is what they wanted. Quit being a simp.

[red324]

That one didn't. She wanted to sit at the bar and only had a coke which they didn't charge us for. lol

[warren_zevon]

In other words, she decided it was not even worth going through with the dinner plan.

[Anonymous]

I would wager that most women have no idea what the "spark" is..

[red324]

I'd say it's very rare that you run into someone that there is spark on the very first interaction. All they are at that point is just another person who exists in the world.

[Guy13]

It's not you, it's me...

[red324]

AKA: It's not you it's me, but it really is you...

[Guy13]

"I told you so"

[Anonymous]

No spark is aka for not enough attraction.

[red324]

I mean I have accurate pics online. Out of all the other girls i've went on dates with I think I can maybe count off 3 other girls that looked like they did on their profile. The rest looked totally different

[Opinion Owner]

That's great but some people look better in person and some don't. Some people look older in person when their pictures are a few years or more old. Also, girls like attraction in personality as well. Sometimes we'll go out with a guy we're not that physically attracted to, to give him a chance to swoon us with his personality.

[Smallboobsgotohell]

Grab her pussy and finger it hard