Girls, Is it bad sign if my date can’t look me in the face at all during our first date?

[Anonymous]

is it because of shyness? Or probably didn’t find me attractive?

[Nikki1989]

It can be a red flag. While not always the case, avoiding eye contact can sometimes be a sign that someone is being dishonest or trying to hide something. This is especially concerning if their other behaviors also seem off.

[gemb00]

Not a bad sign, it just sounds like he’s shy. Ask him questions to help ease him up.

[Abbycado]

Most likely shyness. If it keeps up, the it’s a red flag that it won’t change.

[Justneedtokno]

Sometimes they’re shy sometimes it seems odd maybe a little too shy

[Rena90]

Good and bad might be shy or could have bad ex or previous date.

[itsannalee]

Maybe he's shy so he avoids eye contact with you.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No there are shy people like that.

[Asker]

But why would be so shy during usually when with his friends he’s outgoing?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because he's comfortable around them, can be himself around them. People act different around their crush.

[Asker]

So he most likely was attracted to me? I don't know it really made me insecure that he couldn’t look me in the eyes

[Ms_Facesitter]

Most likely :)

[Anonymous]

Casually ask him if he's enjoying himself.

[Asker]

What would be your guess though?

[Opinion Owner]

Shy, autism, playing it cool or a jerk. It could be a lot. Communication is the only way you learn. No judging. Just open and kind.

[Crazzyyworld]

could be or could be shy

[WhitneySnow]

Shyness

[Asker]

But why would be so shy during date when usually with his friends he’s outgoing?

[gemb00]

Men are like that when they are around a female they like. When he’s with his friends he’s loud, outgoing, confident but they tend to tense up around women

[Dream001]

I dont know