We are maybe 5 weeks into this relationship and I already feel overwhelmed and sad at time , I am ready to disappear and make him come find me?

[millyneenee]

I have communicated constantly to my boyfriend how much communication is big to me. He will go almost 8 hours later without texting me , I will text him back 30 minutes later he takes hours again to text back. I don’t know if this man is cheating or what he has going on. I don’t know what to do anymore it is so frustrating and I can’t deal with it anymore. He promised to get better and he keeps doing it.

[Tomsta]

It sounds like the issue is with you rather than him 8 hours isn't that bad (especially if he works) i'd advise you getting professional help, it sounds like you have attachment/abandonment issues

You appear to have a anxious attachment style as well

[millyneenee]

So I’m the issue?

[Tomsta]

You might not be THE issue but you do have A issue, you jumped straight to "Is he cheating on me?" that says a lot about your mindset and approach i do seriously suggest getting professional help because in that paragraph you come of as very clingy (Like overly attached girlfriend meme clingy)

[VanessaValentine]

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[millyneenee]

Red flag right

[millyneenee]

And my gut feeling tells me I’m not the only one

[VanessaValentine]

Lol no u r the red flag.

[millyneenee]

I can understand being at work but to go 8 hours without texting me back and then I text you back 30 mins later and you do the same thing. I’m pretty much over it

[millyneenee]

How am I the red flag?