My boyfriend &i have been together for 8 years. i have a very difficult time with insecurities and anger issues. instead of healing them, i brought it upon my relationship. it’s always an argument about it and i always say i’m going to change and i never do. the past few weeks it’s been really bad. the month of May, he gave me a promise ring and i gave it back a few days ago bc i was angry and insecure. angry bc of the past and insecure in who i am as a person. i regretted it as soon as i gave him the ring. he’s heartbroken and upset about us. he says he always feels anxious around me and he thought he was comfortable around me but he was wrong. a few hours later he then agreed to give us another chance. he loves me but he can’t feed into my attitude anymore when he’s nice to me. he doesn’t want to deal with me mistreating him and belittling him, he wants me to respect him as a person and a boyfriend. maybe i’ll learn he said. he said you’re going to feel real guilty when the day i actually can’t deal with you anymore and leave you. i don’t know what to do at this point, any advice?
I don’t want him to leave me for good?
