Should I leave him?

Question

We have been together for 6 years, and I have never met his family or know where he lives. I never asked him. He knows where I live and has met my family. He is works in education and has a student whose family life is unstable. He is no longer working there but he took her in and now she lives with him. Supposedly his "mother" lives with him.

I haven't met her either, and now I feel like he probably has a wife, and that is why he is letting this 14 year old live there. I feel so left out in all of this, and I plan on leaving him, but I don't know how to say it.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well i would say your right he probably has a wife andbthev14 year old is his daughter.

It very simple what you say to him. The same thing you said to us. But add i gave. you.6 years of my life and you have only given me moments of time. In those 6 years. When you wanted t.. this is why I don't like guys.

The odds are that he's cheating. And everyday for 6 years he's lied. To you and made you believe all kinds of things

If I live there and we were friend I would want to kick his ass. Or scare the fuck out of him. Im sorry. You have to go through this its so wrong

Ask105 · Accepted Answer

Well i would be hard pressed to let a woman no where i live in 2025 especially when women can get men killed setting them up when things dont go well extreme cases or women could stalk the guy , but seriously just talk to him in person simple as that before you make irrational decisions set your boundaries for this and future relationships their is a reason why he is not letting you around and if it effects you unfortunately its hitting you now 6 years later but you have to think lay it all on the table with him obviously it’s effecting your mental health health

HollyK21 · Accepted Answer

Just tell him that it’s over and you wish him the best. There’s no perfect time or right way to breakup with someone, it all sucks no matter what. Doesn’t make it any less necessary to be done though.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

"We have been together for 6 years, and I have never met his family or know where he lives." this alone shows what kind of joke this "relationship" is.