Should I leave him?

[Anonymous]

I have problem with my fiance. He told me something weird about him, "i need deference from other girls cause then i feel good about myself" a few months ago we had problem cause he found "friend" and told me she is a lesbian but she wasn't.. and he want to leave me for her.. but he changed his mind and want to repair our relation they have no contatact but our relationship is different. But this thing which he told me is weird at all
Please help i have no idea what shoul i do

I can't trust him but still love

Stay and repair

Go asap

[Fayeleo]

Look - here is the thing.
Life is short. A good relationship is supposedly to lift you up so you can have each other's back and enjoy the ups of life, and hold through the downs. Someone gives you doubts, headaches, confusions, etc is not a long term relationship material.
You cannot love if you do not trust. What you have is most likely an emotional dependency right now.

[SnakeBoop]

leave.
there's never going to be any trust or decent relationship there if half his brain is always going to be looking for attention elsewhere. nevermind he was ready to leave you already

[JoyGirl]

If you want to fix it, you both need to talk to someone (like a couple counseling).
If you don’t talk to someone, it will be hard to move forward in the relationship.
If he says no to talking to someone, just leave. You can’t fight for someone who isn’t fighting to keep you.

[Anonymous]

I can hook you up with a pretty amazing guy. Let him go. He has things he needs to work on honey. I know you love him but he isn't ready. He is doing the best he can and that is the problem. He just isn't ready at this point in his life.

[Asker]

Big thanks for your reply

[molonski2]

Sadly it will only get far worse , he's out and about , and he can snif it , he's on the game , not ready , let him go , he's only going to use you as a backstop.

[Daniela1982]

Go with your gut, not your heart.

[acooke-13]

No trust = no relationship. He will do this again when someone else comes along.. GO NOW

[kyleelyn199723]

Im not even sure why you took him back when he was having thoughts on replacing you at the drop of a dime.

[Asker]

Its love.. he was too important for me
Its totally weird and still have no idea what shoul i do 🥲

[Asker]

I want to leave him and stay at the same time

[kyleelyn199723]

That’s not love, or it is love but it’s one sided love. He doesn’t love you and only uses you when it’s convenient. Once he finds someone better , he will be out

[Asker]

Actually u probably right, thanks

[Wise4myage]

B, leave. How can you stay with someone you don't trust?

[Avocadorable]

You're his second option.
Leave him expeditiously.

[LegendaryIcon]

please do

most of the relationships on here are fucking retarded anyway

[Heartache0405]

I would leave immediately

[Roguehoneylife]

There’s no fixing that my friend. I’m sorry.

[and96]

Leave, he will do it again.

[exitseven]

dump him.

[Anonymous]

Red flag for sure.

[Anonymous]

that's fucked up