If a girl is cheated on by 6 guys, what are your thoughts on her? What do you think her fault is? (Let's assume that she never cheated on them)?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

There is nothing wrong with her but she needs stronger boundaries, a bad person might ask out 200 girls a year while a good person might ask out 1 girl every 2 years, so if you don’t say no to people, your odds of getting a bad person are much higher than your odds of getting a good person, I know very attractive women who dated bad people because they did not say no to them. I also know unattractive girls who married amazing guys cause they waited for a good match and did not settle.

[Anonymous]

None. It’s not her fault as it’s never anybody elses fault that someone cheats, that’s entirely on the cheater. Either A) she’s just very unlucky, B) she has a type and guys with qualities that make them her type are also more likely to be cheaters or C) she attracts cheaters/liars/manipulators/narcissists because they feel she’s a suitable victim. It can be that they feel she’s naive, very trusting or very forgiving and loyal and that they’re therefor likely to get away with their bullshit if they’re with her so they’re more likely to persue her over some other women.

[Guy13]

She's got to be driving them crazy... maybe it is all the questions and non-trust self-fulfilling prophecy? She picking the same guys with same personality traits... She must be a bad boy girl. She probably gives it up to easy and is good with fallback position. You asked...

[Avicenna]

Six times means she is dating players and is clearly a doormat that guys do not respect. She needs to step away from dating and develop some self-respect and learn how to recognize what guys don't respect her and how to find ones who (it's often the less glamorous guys).

[FilmGuy93]

At that point, it's safe assume that she's gravitating to a particular kind of guy for a reason. I don't know what that reason is, but she has to be doing something to bring those sorts of people into her life. She probably struggles with setting boundaries.

[HighValue]

She keeps choosing the same kind of guys/same personality/morals.

I think she should avoid any guys that have a past of casual sex. That may help her avoid cheaters.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Her fault is that she is dating the wrong guys. This is a likely outcome of dating men based on "Status" as opposed to their personal qualities.

[Berethor]

I most cases it's a girl's fault for choosing guys like that, a girl is like a lock.

[JPresidente]

She's probably dating too many FBoys. Gotta try and do some research on these dudes up front to be sure.

[Subarugirl]

Being cheated on is never the victim‘s fault. How ever if it keeps happening over and over I would question their judgment in character.

[DryGermanGuy]

Mr Bond, they have a saying in Chicago: 'Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. The third time it's enemy action'.
- Ian Fleming, Goldfinger

[Staximus]

She either A. only picks piece of shit guys and needs to learn how to pick good guys, B. Never gives them sex and they go find it elsewhere, or C. The guys are looking for a way out because she is crazy or doesn't give a fuck about them.

[Asker]

Boys get into relationship for sex?

[MangoBob]

Boys yes, men no

[Idkwtfimdoing96]

I feel sorry for her. She deserves a hell of a lot better

[Vegasrunner]

@idkwtfimdoing96 I think you means she deserves worse. If she's getting cheated on by 6 guys then most likely she's being chosen by HV guys. Most men of value are going to cheat because men are only as faithful as their options. She may have to settle for a guy of lesser value.

[normalice]

She sounds super clingy and thus hard to break up with.

[Asker]

So what if she's clingy? Does she deserves to be cheated on?

[normalice]

Who said anything about "deserves"? I'm describing not defending.

[Anonymous]

Her fault. Once is a mistake 6 times is a pattern. At some point she has to take responsibility for her poor selection. Anyone can make a mistake. A fool does not learn from them.

[jshm2]

Would hardly say she was cheated on then, she's just got a fetish for fuckboys and a shitty taste in men

[FinalFantasyBro]

Ouch got cheated on by six guys, I am very sorry to hear that but I definitely see it as a reflection to take a break from romantic drama and try to actually focused just on yourself.

[Anonymous]

When I was still male I had a girl do this to me, well, 5 guys... Except she videoed it and made me watch. That's when she told me how I was so small i might as well become a woman so at least I could please men... So I did, and I do 😁

[2021biguy]

She dating the wrong kind of guys, losers :P

[AviatorTom]

She has a habit of picking bad guys, but O wouldn't hold that against her.

[MangoBob]

I am reminded of Taylor Swift, 500 songs about guys leaving her and zero songs about blow jobs. You see where im going with this?

[Anonymous]

It all points back to her at the end. Why? Not ALL men are cheaters. So, what does that mean? There's something there that she's doing that is making them turn that way.

[LazerBean]

That she has poor judgement.

[Wise4myage]

She has very low self esteem.

[driven159]

The only thing that's her fault is picking losers

[RealDaveThomas]

Has she cheated in the past though

[LimitedBenefits101]

Too much nagging as most women do