Are/were you scared your boyfriend could be gay?

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MrJMM Follow
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No, because I was a guy we would be boyfriends why would I be scared that he could be gay? I don’t get it. But I think that most straight men are somehow afraid of being raped in prisons by other men like every single gay person is a groomer, sex offender, rapist, etc. I don't why they think that but it's stupid.

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  *if is a guy we would be
  
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- MrJMM
  
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  *if he is a guy
  
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snackthatsmilesback Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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Nope. Just worried we will pass each other by.

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QuietVerbena Follow
Xper 6 Age: 38 , mho 33%

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No. I am not scared of that. I’m pretty empathetic and good at sex so I think I’d know if I were dating a gay man.

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Emiliamazing Follow
Yoda Age: 48 , mho 58%

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No, it was obvious he wanted me when we were in the initial dating phase in a galaxy long long ago

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- Emiliamazing
  
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  Not sure if your update is directed at me. But to be very clear, I am not afraid now nor was I concerned about it when we started dating.
  
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- RandomGuy1030
  
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  Gay people keep saying I knew. This question isn't for gay people
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  Gotcha! Sometimes folks just wanna be heard.
  
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- RandomGuy1030
  
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  Yeah I get excited someone replied and then its literally the same joke I've seen 5 times
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  I know people can change, but it is my hope that at least with my husband and I, we are happy and pleased with each other and have no desire to change teams or find somebody else
  
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- jengeorge26
  
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  @emiliamazing you always seem to have the best answers.
  
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- Emiliamazing
  
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  @jengeorge26 You are so kind! The goal is always thoughtful and helpful feedback :-)
  I received plenty of helpful advice here, had it made plenty of mistakes. Just trying to do more good than bad
  
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Aerissa_Jade Follow
Guru Age: 25 , mho 58%

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I did have a boyfriend that at one point came out as gay, we stayed real good friends and in contact after that. Last fall he even broke up with his boyfriend and he moved in with me for a few months until he got his own place.
We are on great terms, I wish the best for him and he the best for me.

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- RandomGuy1030
  
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  You didn't sense it before he said it?
  
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- Aerissa_Jade
  
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  Nope, not at all.
  
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- RandomGuy1030
  
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  Thats good
  
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Idkiiii Follow
Xper 2 Age: 24

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You know what I don't understand:

Women often tell about their experience with other women and society views this as acceptable.

But when a man does it with another man he is instantly labeled.

Someone explain?

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- Luopio27
  
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  The homophobia is a fear if getting raped by a man. The more acceptance for lesbians may be the dream of having 2 girls to fuck on the same bed at the same time.
  
  Im just guessing. ain't no professior.
  
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- Sarahplus2
  
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  Cause it's not through some hole in the bathroom wall or in the dark at an adult bookstore.
  
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Texasgal95 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31 , mho 32%

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No I do not I never have but even if he was he finally came to terms with that I’d be happy for him

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jengeorge26 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 55

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I really don’t care if he has other interest.

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zagor Follow
Master Age: 40

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If I had a boyfriend I'd be pretty sure he was gay.

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MountAverage Follow
Guru Age: 40

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If I ever had a boyfriend I'd be scared he's not gay.

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MrKinktastic Follow
Guru Age: 36 , mho 40%

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936 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yes, terrified, how could he do me like that 🤣

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Zoi03 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 22

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Well i’m gay I hope she gay.

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- RandomGuy1030
  
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  I believe that... you do look very gay
  
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Well I hope she is. 😂

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maximumpower Follow
Explorer Age: 42

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ain't got no boyfriend...

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Sarahplus2 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29

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Not a worry for me

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- ElementoP
  
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  Because you don't have one!
  
  Lol no I'm kidding
  
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