Would you date a mother of 4?

[Anonymous]

Would you date a mother of 4? Like seriously date her or just go for the obvious? What are the pros and cons? Why or why would you not date a mother of 4?

[MTC29]

First, mom finding a babysitter for four young kids won't be anything like automatic- so doing anything spontaneous is almost certainly out of the question. In the event of long-range plans, you can count on one of the kids being sick that day (or night) and her having to cancel.

Lastly, and most importantly, at least one of her kids will automatically hate you. My own mom was a single mom, and I didn't want guys getting near her. I did my absolute best to ruin any chance she might have had for a serious relationship. As a grown I'm not proud of that- in fact I'm embarrassed by it, but as a small boy I considered it to be a defensive measure.

[Berethor]

I rather not, I don't want that baggage.