I got a question if this is okay?

[Anonymous]

i was texting a girl and she was showing her figure due to a convo we had about working out i’m 16 going to be 17 soon she is 14 and won’t be 15 for a while i have a question would it be okay for us to date cause she sounds very mature and she has like a 15-17 year old figure would it be okay or would it be weird

[OlderAndWiser]

You would need to discuss that issue with her parents. Their suspicion will be that you want to date her solely for the purpose of enticing her into a sexual relationship, so you might anticipate that. You could suggest group dates, spending time with her at her home when the parents are present, having her come to your house for dinner, and other kinds of chaperoned events, so that they get the idea that you might be an okay dude.

[Asker]

i think i might just keep it friend based or cut it off cause like it will cause a lot of walls in the relationship in the future like when i’m 18 she will be 15 and plus we can’t hook up cause we ain’t close enough in age and we will face a lot of judgement by people as well most likely

[RosieMelts]

Three years diff is a stretch she most likely wants admiration and romance and you’re a healthy male who wants sexual pleasure. Both are fine but you both can’t get those misunderstood. You’re both too young for sex so if that’s the object- talk about it. All of it. If you want to date her be serious about her. If you want sex with her make sure your intentions are clear if she seems to like you enough more than friends. Hope it all works out and maybe you both can find a good balance.

[Tyrael]

You're close enough in age I don't see it being a big issue, as long as it's not a physical relationship as she's too young for that.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

These ages are so close and so far. That’s kind of like if someone my age was tasked to babysit a 6 year old or something and the de- Nevermind