He will pay the Bill's but won't take me on a proper date, is there something I'm not seeing? Is he even really interested in me?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter. It's not working for you. What does he say about it? Are you willing to continue like this for the next 40 years?

[Asker]

When I do bring up the situation he's always like you didn't know what I was going to bring you. I wanna bring you to 3 different spots. Never happens

[slatyb]

Ok, see question 2 "Are you willing to continue like this for the next 40 years?"

[likelyOK]

I don’t get it how will he pay the bill but not take you out?

[Asker]

I don't know maybe he just wants to be roommates. Not lovers