He keeps asking to meet me but I’m not sure he’s serious?

[Anonymous]

My crush keeps asking to meet me but I’m not sure if he’s serious. I’ve also never talked to him or met him before. He only texts me. How do I know he means it?

[DaveJord]

So the standard rule for most guys is that you connect with some one online or through text, and you been talking for at least 3 days or a week and a the women is unwilling to meet you in person then you need to move on.

Most women usually know within the first 3 days of communicating if they are willing to meet the man or not. If after a week they are still uncertain then she is not the one and you need to forget about her.

For you as the women, if you honestly are that uncertain and untrusting then; A: Your not really ready to be dating. B: You should not be online dating if you have this level of anxiety about it. C: He is not the guy for you.

In the end there is no guarantee or certainty in dating. That is what makes it so hard, so if you are going to engage in the process you have to be willing to take chances and to a limited degree open you self up to the vulnerabilities knowing that 90% of relationships fail through the dating process. That's the truth, you might have to go on 10 dates with 10 different guys, before you actually achieve some type of relationship status with another individual.

I have connected and went on 16 dates with 12 different women before I had my first real relationship with someone I found on line. And even then 9 months in I am still going through the process of uncertainty. So if you are looking for certainty then you're really never going to get it. That is why trust is needed, trust and then verify.

[misfittoy]

talk to him on the phone actually call him and see if he wants to meet in a public place. there is no reason way of ever knowing you just have to put yourself out there

[Anonymous]

you could just ask him and see how far he's willing to travel

[JPresidente]

Face time him and ask.