Guys, is he honestly keen about wanting to meet me?

[Anonymous]

Met a guy through an app when I'm about to move away for work for 2 months. He seems very keen - asks me questions about my life, would overexplain himself for delayed responses, and was quick to ask me out for a drink. When I told him I'll be gone for a bit and asked if I should let him know when I'm back,

Me: Would love to, bu tI'll be gone for about 10 weeks for work. Let you know when I'm back?
Him: Ah that's a pity but you should defintely reach out when you're back. *
I asked for his number which he said 'xxxx- text me on whatsapp 😊'
Wasn't sure if he wanted to continue the convo or only gave me the no. to text him when I'm back.
I texted him the night after and he asked when exactly do i leave. Told him I leaving for Germany in 2 3 days time.
Him: 'Ah I'm sure Germany would be pretty cool! Message me when you're back 😊'
That's like a fullstop to the convo e. g he doesn't want to do a texationship wh/o having met me? Does he sound genuinely interested?
TLDR: met a guy when I'm leaving for 2 months, we texted but I don't know if he's honestly keen about wanting to meet me

Yes he sounds very keen (and texationship isn't ideal when you haven't even met)

Nah he's just keeping you around - move on!

[Browneye57]

"TLDR: met a guy when I'm leaving for 2 months, we texted but I don't know if he's honestly keen about wanting to meet me "

Good - the rest of all the explanation isn't necessary.

Here's the thing - if he wasn't interested he wouldn't bother talking to you. So just get that out of the way.

More importantly, you can't 'meet' someone if you never met them IRL. So a texting conversation is not how you form a relationship. And no guy is going to want to just text back and forth unless it's going somewhere. So save all that for a meet up in real life.

When the time is right you can touch base and meet up, see if he's worth investing any time or emotion into. Don't give this more legs than it's due.

[Asker]

I do have a tendency to overthink... That's the normal train of thought but when I start overanalysing, all logic flies out of the window. Anyway, really appreciate the input!

[Logorithim]

I don't see why you can't periodically keep in touch via text if you're interested in him. Text him to let him know how you're doing and to see if he answers. If he does, it's a positive sign.

[Asker]

Followed you - message me?

[starman7]

Almost every guy who meets an anonymous girl online would do that for sure. Yes , he is interested in you. But the thing is that there is a huge probability that he interested in many girls.

[Nahid1234]

Haha why you saying that for? You’ll make her upset

[starman7]

It's better to know the truth in the beginning than to know after a shitty result.

[Asker]

Though numbers are exchanged? Do you reckon he's anticipating me texting him when i'm back?

[starman7]

I think , yes

[Asker]

From his actions and choice of words? I don't wanna seem like a fool when I reach out in April and he be like ' Who you?' LOL :p

[ThisDudeHere]

Well insofar it looks like he may actually be interested.

[Silver158]

He does seem interested. Just be aware that he might have moved on by the time you get back

[Uglyman1001]

I think he's interested in you why not give him your email? Or kik or even do Skype with him?

[Nahid1234]

Move on

[Asker]

Why so?

[Asker]

Care to message me?

[Nahid1234]

I told you so and you are anonymous

[Asker]

just followed you !

[Nahid1234]

No I doubt that

[Nahid1234]

You messaged me I think