Do you ever hesitate in pursuing someone or be with someone because you’re scared to get hurt/heartbroken? (Page 2)

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Do you ever hesitate in pursuing someone or be with someone because you’re scared to get hurt/heartbroken?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I don't date often cause scared to get heartbroken

Revenant_Titan · Answer

Yep! Dealing with that now, and I honestly see myself all alone, not because I can’t get a beautiful woman to look my way, but because my last one left me afraid to be walked out on again. So I think I’m done.

spartan55 · Answer

Never once, and never would. To me that's a defeatist attitude, if that is how I believe my relationships will play out then I don't need to have a girlfriend.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Yes I did that a lot… in general would find a justification to say no or back away. Self defense mechanism.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nahh. I like to take the risk and skydive into shit. But i always keep a parachute to fly my way out if shit goes left

Still-alive · Answer

Not anymore. When i see someone i like now i just go for it. My heart has calluses all over it. Its hardened but not broken. It can still brave and endure through difficult times.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

When I was younger maybe. Honestly though now I just go for it and enjoy life. A fun part about being polyamorous is that I've already got a woman who's into me so a rejection is pretty easy to shrug off.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Take chances in life. I go after what I want. Worked out great! Sure some scarifies.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

Always. I get hurt every single time I try to express sentiments. Sincerely I'm getting sick of that, I don’t want to pursue anyone anymore.

YollyM · Answer

I don't think that I've ever liked or loved enough to care if my heart gets broken or they even reciprocate my feelings. It's almost like I low-key am over the relationship before it even begins lol

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have in the past. We would start to get close and I would find a reason to run away. Lost out on a lot of great possibilities doing that.

Bubbles16 · Answer

Yes I was very scared of telling my current boyfriend that I had a crush on him because I was afraid of being rejected and ruining our friendship because before we started dating we were best friends

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Definitely at the moment. I'm finding it hard to trust anyone

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I know what you’re talking about, but I’m sure there is some guy in the world somewhere for you if that is what you want.

dolemite89 · Answer

This is a more accurate illustration of why i avoid getting involved with certain women 🤣

Babygirl_S · Answer

All the time, especially when it comes to white guys. White women are a LOT kinder to average Indian men than white men are to attractive Indian women. I have accepted this fact and it's a huge turn-off for me. I have a crush on a Hollywood actor and even that offends them. Many white men have even been pretending to be Indian male models on this website and bullying me. I can always tell because no Indian would refer to fellow Indians as curry people.

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

I get attached too easily. I always forget that nothing's forever. I have a hard time letting go of people

Adam1978 · Answer

No but I got a boatload of other reason to not pursue someone.

EmyyWolf · Answer

Yup me lol. But I promised that by next year Id loose all the fear all of it

RavVid · Answer

Nah but should have if I had more sense. Have pretty much packed mine up.

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