I'm medically disabled and I need a BWW. Is that possible?

[Anonymous]

I'm medically disabled. My left hand and feet are numb from illness and I take like 10 prescription meds per day. I still live with my mom and step-father for god's sake, because I can't afford rent to live on my own. WTF am I supposed to do to find a woman? I need a woman who wouldn't mind taking care of me. lol.

[Anonymous]

Seeking someone to be a caretaker and financial provider is a big ask. What do you bring to the table?

[Asker]

My sister has 4 nursing degrees and makes more money than the law allows. Why can't I find a woman like her?

I can take care of myself, I just can't keep a full time job because of all my medical problems. Disability only pays $900 per month. Rent is over $1000 so you do the math.

[Opinion Owner]

No one can get by on disability alone, but why not look for a job? There’s plenty of things you can do. What I’m generally saying is that your standards for a woman just aren’t aligning with what you have to offer. Could you get a woman with a great career like your sister? Absolutely. But there’s nothing attractive or desirable about having to parent a grown man.

[Asker]

Every time I get a job the manager refused to give me fair hours and works me to death and I end up in the ER. My medications alone cost $7000 per quarter if I had to pay out of pocket. That means the first $28000 per year that I theoretically made at a job, if it didn't kill me first, would be going to medications. The only reason I'm even still alive is Medicaid and medicare pay most of my medication and hospital expenses. I had a full time job a year ago and had to quit because I got too sick to work. My condition has gotten worse since then.

[Opinion Owner]

Gosh, I can’t say that doesn’t sound rough. What sort of jobs were you doing? Could you find something that aligns better with your medical condition?