Would you date a person that’s highly attractive but is also unorganized and messy?

[BloodCursedDeviant]

[ElementoP]

"No way! Messiness is a HUGE turn off for me. 😠"

God some of are you are so fucking insufferable you'd be lucky to have someone even look at you with interest let alone wanna be with you

Fuck off to the hole you crawled out of

[exitseven]

Yes, but her faults would have an adverse effect on whether or not we could ever get married.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[boredgal]

No, I hate messy and unorganized, it would mess me up personally. But if he loves me enough that wouldn’t be a problem for him at all. I won’t ask him to change, he would probably do it himself. 😊

[ElementoP]

Ya. Keep telling yourself that

[boredgal]

Maybe I will 😊

[letuswaltzforthedead]

No, I'm trying to be less messy and I would rather have a partner that tries as well. Plus, if the guy is highly attractive to women, he probably wouldn't date me to begin with lol.

[Pinay_ako]

I can’t stand mess. So no

[itzbbella]

Ok, so in my opinion… being unorganized is different from being messy. Being unorganized can have many meaning. Whether it is atmospheric, metaphoric, or as an adjective. Messy, yes I see why it can be considered with being “unorganized” but messy is usually filthy and/or dirty. I hope that makes sense…

[LostGirl9]

No, but only because I’m really messy myself and if we ever lived together the house would be a dumpster

[DizzyDesii]

As long as they let me be the main BIG decision maker and planner in the relationship. But im no ones maid. He better hire someone

[idkwhatsreal]

Depends on their personality. If it would be worth it to constantly be cleaning up. How unorganized are we talking about?

[MCheetah]

Yeah, that tends to be how most attractive looking women live, actually.

[melanieeeB]

Nope, I can't with messy people cause with me everything has to be clean and organized

[Guy13]

Not often will the Keepers. Most of the keepers trend towards OCD and “I’m not your Mother.”

[anon1903]

That's me. Why wouldn't I date someone like me?

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, probably. Unless she was disorganized to the point of being kind of gross/disgusting.

[kataang]

Yea, if the personality is good as well. I can just clean up after him, yk?

[MikeInHawaii]

An accountant told me she has learned to equate messy offices with successful companies.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Nope. I'm not the most organized but I refuse to deal with chaos

[understanddd]

If you mean messy as in bag hygiene than no

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Like in general. Bad hygiene is the worse.

[understanddd]

Than no

[Fuentes]

No I have a pst peeve when people don't clean up after themselves and misplace everything lol

[duttyjamagyal]

I am unorganized and messy and highly unattractive so yes

[maximumpower]

Nope.
Tried that a couple times.
Looks will fade but a slob will always be a slob.

[EaterPeter]

Most likely not. Then there will be two of us to make mess. Who will clean? 😉

[RedStiletto88]

Him being a slob is highly unattractive. So no.

[Date_a_Snob]

question answered - my boyfriend is dating me