Would you date a disorganized person?

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  • My boyfriend is disorganised. I have ocd. We don't live together yet, but I imagine that's when I may rage. But I don't know, cause I like organising things myself, I guess it'd just annoy me if I'd just organised something and he messed it all up straight away. I don't know. Tbc.

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    • Wow, you two are an interesting pair. How Long have you been together?

      My wife was OCD.

    • In a relationship for a year and half, dating for over 2. His sock draw is full of odd socks which I'm making it my mission to go through and match them all up next time I'm at his. Love organising things.

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  • Messiness can be organised so I don't care about that bit punctuality is important to me

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  • l would and l like to keep everything clean and tidy

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What Girls Said 13

  • I voted no but it depends how badly disorganized they are. A little disorder is okay but if their house looks like it was lived in by a bunch of meth addicts then I won't date them.

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  • It really depends on your definition of disorganized. I don’t tend to like being late. If we were to go some place, and he made us late, I would be very stressed, and it would probably ruin the whole night for me. So it might be a bad idea for me. But if you just mean his room is a bit of a mess and he loses things, then that’s fine.

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  • No, I wouldn't. I think I have OCD, so it will drive me crazy if I date someone who's very disorganized

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    • It would, even someone just somewhat disorganized.

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  • I would need more details on what you consider to be disorganized. What might be disorganized to one person might not be to another

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    • It's really up to you to define it because it's you're standard I am interested in here, not mine (which is I would tolerate a lot).

    • I mean it's not a deal breaker. im disorganized in my own way.

    • OK, that's a good point.

  • I have before and I didn’t like it. He was constantly losing things and complaining, but refused to implement any of my practices. I have ADD. So it is imperative I keep things organized and i rarely lose things. He was always losing or breaking something and it annoyed me.

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  • Hmmm I’m ocd so I think I’d use that gift to both our advantages!

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  • Pushed the wrong one, honestly if they were disorganized I'd love to organize their stuff it they let me.

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    • But I know where everything is! My disorganization serves a purpose! Where the hell are my keys!

  • Depends on how bad it is. I like slightly messy desks for example. But I also like clean places.

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  • No because they might forget about our plans or forget about stuff as they are worried about other stuff

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  • Nor a Hoarder. xx

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  • I am a disorganized person

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  • I am that person 😭

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  • Yeah Im one myself

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What Guys Said 20

  • It depends on how disorganized. I'm kind of a neatnik, so I can't fairly expect most people to be on my level. I can handle some disorder, but not total chaos. On the other hand, I couldn't handle someone who is more fastidious than myself. Life is too short for that shit.

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  • I did that and ended up cleaning up all the time. It was horrible and I felt like the help after a while. Recommend against dating a disorganised person since it wouldn't be able to progress further.

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  • I dated this Cuban americanize girl and she had the messiest bedroom that you can imagine. Things thrown all over the floor and on the bed totally disorganized. She had no room for nothing the drawers are overstuffed with clutter and papers on top of the dressers and floor it was just awful. Panties jeans and dress pants and shirts were thrown everywhere and socks all over the floor and on her bed. She was a good dresser and was charming and a very pretty girl very educated but extremely unorganized

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    • Yeah, I think even the most neat Freak guy would overlook the disorganization for a Girl like that.

    • Yeah but I couldn't get married to a girl like her because I would never even have a bedroom. She would totally dominate the bedroom with clutter and junk along with Jim Morrison posters all over the place and it would be 100% her bedroom at all times from head to toe. It would be like I am a guest in her own bedroom we'd have to have our own separate rooms and that's kind of weird anyway. she moved into my house two and a half years she had her own room and she junked that up to. We lasted a long time but it's over now for quite a long time now

  • Yeah, then I could organize her stuff for her... I love to organize things and keep things in order but sometimes I let my room get really messy but every other part of my house is always organized...

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  • I am disorganized but good under pressure, I do well with someone who is organized but we feed off each other if both of us are messy/disorganized.

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  • Date yes. Have a relationship, would need to thonk about it. Depends how disorganized

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  • Yeah. I think i'll have fun organizing her. Depends on how disorganized she is though. I'm kind of disorganized myself to.

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  • I too am a disorganised person. I like the relaxed attitude.

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  • Sometimes the one organise the other. It's not obviously a red flag.

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  • No, because I am one myself so together we'd be a disaster.

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  • Nope.

    I'm disorganized myself so i wouldn't want our lives to be a complete mess

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  • Depends a bit what you mean by disorganised but overall yes

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  • Nope. That is one of the reasons why my marriage died.

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  • Depends on for how long, how disorganized, and how hot

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  • I am not that disorganised but I could date a disorganised person

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  • Yea I’m disorganised

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  • I have never heard of that

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  • Sure

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  • yes.

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  • Yeah coz I am one

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