It's so hard to leave , I'm so done?

Question

My boyfriend said when we fight and he does something wrong I should only come to him with facts if we want to talk it out. He ruined my trip with him and our friends to alberta. He denies he did anything. I cried the whole time cuz he treated me like shit. He ignored me and shoved me away everytime I came close to him. He broke up with me when we came back for my reactions. Now he says he's never wrong and if he thinks I'm wrong I should only present facts that he's done something otherwise I'm stupid for communicating.

LaureenVO · Accepted Answer

Leave him, he clearly does not want to communicate. There is no such thing as having facts that he has done something wrong, because those are opinions, not facts. So you will not be able to provide him facts. He is not willing to listen to your voice/opinion. He does not care about your feelings and that is a big red flag. In the future this will not become better. If I were you I would go up to him and tell him that you want to breakup. Tell him that you feel like shit and that you can't handle the relationship anymore. Then just pack your stuff and leave him. Don't let him manipulate or guilttrip you. Be ready to move on and find someone better. Hope you can do it <3

Faith18letsgo · Accepted Answer

Listen to “maybe your the problem” by Ava Max. Also, dumb him. That’s super shitty, and it’s gas lighting. Also just doesn’t sound like he’s making you significantly more happy then he’s making you sad.

VikingWarLord · Accepted Answer

Monogamy is the biggest SCAM (aside from sky-daddy religions) ever perpetrated upon humanity.

Run FAST and don't look back. You've got your mouth whet a bit with what most relationships will be like. There's nothing to keep most couples together. It's never the dream they imagined, it typically turns into a NIGHTMARE like you're experiencing. Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan and then dump this dude.

blarenbond · Accepted Answer

If it doesn't work out for you, it's better to leave
It's hard now, but you'll thank yourself later
When I left my ex I thought it was the hardest thing, because she was like your boyfriend
In the end I'm so happy I left her and then I met my wife